This discussion is ultimately pointless. There is no common ground that can be reached, no arguments that can be made for either side to change the other's mind, and all it will be in the end - as has mostly been the case - basic name-calling and the flinging of insults.
The problem is that we have here two different, wholly incompatible interpretations of the situation, both of which are arguably valid and either could possibly be true.
One side believes that Bones is still a genuinely nice creative who doesn't really care about the money and just wants to make a game. They think he just hit some hard times and needs all the support he can get, and that the other group is reinforcing a destructive cycle that is somehow preventing him from recovering from the stresses of creative endeavor. Thus they believe that the lack of progress can, at least in part, be attributed to those who speak out against Bones for continuously demoralizing him. In short, they believe we are to blame.
The other side believes that Bones was once a genuinely nice creative, but that he got corrupted by his own staggering success and, possibly after some hard times, realized that he has a loyal following who will continue to finance an extravagant lifestyle for him even if he only does the bare minimum (while simultaneously redefining what the "bare minimum" even is). This side thinks that the support he receives will only reinforce this destructive cycle of megalomania and greed, and that he must be called out and held responsible for the funds he has received, the promises he has made and the lies he has told. Thus they believe that the lack of progress can, at least in part, be attributed to those that support Bones for rewarding his bad behavior. It short, we believe they are to blame.
Diametrically opposed and entirely incompatible. I'd say that the evidence is mostly for one side rather than the other (though I won't say which), but really, I'd recommend each side to mostly ignore each other. We won't change each other's minds, and insulting each other won't change anything besides potentially escalating the conflict.
In the end, the only one who can prove one side or the other correct and end the conflict is Bones himself. Whether that is going to happen... well, let's just say that remains to be seen.