We devs get our fair share of hate. And the higher you get up in the popularity of the games the more frequent the hate becomes. So, you shouldn't be afraid to hurt any devs.
They're used to it.
With a quick look - none of the games I mentioned was among your list. In fact, the majority of those games are sex first and story second.
And I think herein lies the problem and why you don't play the story focused game yet want story-focused games.
You see all the games as the same. There are no preferences, no genres, no nothing. Every game must be how you want it to be. The issues you speak of are more issues related to your own preferences than actual issues.
Sure, there may be games that copy-paste others. Some games that lack originality and reuse the same incest 'template'. But to take all games and lump them together is another matter.
You're mixing things up. Sexual fantasy is different from other kinds of fantasy.
Sexual fantasy, especially male's sexual fantasy, is most commonly about females doing things they wouldn't ordinarily do. Not about this epic adventure and strive of the main protagonist.
Does that mean that it can't be more in-depth or be as you described? Of course, it can. But it is just another way of doing it. not the only way. Also, no that is not the definition of fantasy...
noun
noun:
fantasy
- 1.
the faculty or activity of imagining impossible or improbable things.
"his researches had moved into the realms of fantasy"
And no one can fault you for not being able to stand the gameplay of those games. On any games for that matter. But what does your personal preferences and likes have to do with anything?
And just saying they are story-based does not make it true.
They are great games. I enjoy them. But It is laughable to say they are story-based. The story is a means to forward the sexual content. That's the only purpose of the story. To move along the wheels enough to add more sexual content. To be able to add a bit more character depth to make the sexual content more alluring. That's the only purpose of it.
Story base content is different. The main goal of the story is not to drive forward the sexual content but the actual story.
My game has no sex in it. It is only the story (and characters) that makes people play it. Same with many of the other story-focused games. You can take the adult stuff out and it would still have a coherent story and make it enjoyable.
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I think there are two main issues with your opinions.
1. you see all the games as the same no matter their style and genres. Therefore you expect that all the games must be made in a specific way regarding what the dev intent it to be. (Sexual focused or story focused)
2. You have a hard time differencing between sexual-focused content and story-focused content. There are games that do both very well. But the majority of the devs have a focus area. The fact that you can see summertime saga and Milfy City as story-focused games simply because there is a bit of story in it.
That be like saying Mr. Bean is an epic drama with a high level of storytelling because there is a bit of story in it.