I disagree, in terms or "being the kid" you can also play this with a 3rd person outlook. I hate shota games because a pre teen kid with a micro peen getting all the chicks is even more unbelievable than a fat old man/man that knows how to manipulate and gets what they want from a women.
You see women in real life all the time with rich old/ugly men, but not with 9 year old kids, but that's probably because it's illegal and frowned upon, but even if that was legal, the women wouldn't be feeling much with a 2-3 incher.