Games like TiTs and CoC where sex is really casual aren't the best places to look for vanilla monogamy sex.
Important for me to state this, but I don't have a problem with things outside of monogamy, I'm saying the ratio is a bit skewed. When combined with the rather anemic TF choices (and scenes that support them), nonexistent corruption content, AND that the content is skewed towards a single particular fetish as opposed to TiTS approach of casting a wide net, it's obvious why somebody like me would bounce off.
With that out of the way. TiTS and CoC both have way more on offer on that particular topic than CoC2 does by a fairly wide margin
Tits was a mix but had like half of your followers:
Bess, Dizzy, Gianna, Olympia, Penny, Pippa, Yammi and her pet, Reaha, Sera, Shekka, the loyal Siegwulfe and it's dom variant. And multiple NPCs on nearly every planet barring Dhaal: Quinn, Thyvara, Tessa, Verusha (post expansion), etc. And I should also include one-offs where the it's just a fleeting moment but it's got that sweet spot of flavor going for it like the Sydian female in TiTS (or the naga in CoC1 if you become a naga)
For CoC1 over half of every consistent character is committed (one way or the other at least) to the MC. compare followers for your camp:
Shouldra, Sophie, Valeria, Helspawn, Ember, technically the Bath Girl, Vapula (if you so desire), whatever you name the Latex Girl, Amily (one of the aforementioned characters who has friction with your decisions which leads to that disaster with the girl in tel'adre if not enslaved), Isabella, Arian who TF's himself/herself for the PC, Izma, Kiha, Marble, Phylla, and technically, Hollicynthia.
There's also a good chunk of the people in world itself:
Whitney
if you're naughty, a fairy you rescue whose name I can't recall right now, Tamani and her daughters, Sheila, technically cotton, Edryn, the cat on tel'adre whose name I can't remember, and a bunch of others I can't recall off the top of my head. Again, this is without mentioning other things like the corruption content in CoC1.
In regards to ratio and I suppose raw numerical value, CoC2 has notably less of that particular content than the other two games by a decent amount making it a bit of an outlier of the three. For a sequel of a game with tons of corruption you'll imagine somebody expecting more of CoC would be a bit nonplussed when that basically doesn't exist
Anyways
Futadom isn't remotely the same as femdom and are two completely different niches. When I'm in the mood for femdom, I'm not looking to get dicked. If somebody is browsing the tags for "female domination", odds are they're not looking for futadom.
Pretty sure that doesn't count like at all. Isn't the whole point to be emasculated, not instantly transform into the opposite sex? 'Sides, bad ends are hardly easy to see.
Will give you the titfucking and milfs, though it's not really worth to play the game if somebody is interested in mainly just that.
That's most writers in these games ever since TiTS, though. Hell, even the first game didn't do a great job at that stuff. I would say it's more of a community wide problem than just a savin problem.
I agree with everything you're saying. I'm just trying to be diplomatic based on arguments I've read in the past.