Want a ruined daughter and wife? Written by Tobs.
Sorry couldn't resist
Saddest thing is I think tobs has/had the potential to have made his content really good and memorable. Waifu hunters liked kiyoko as much as brienne for some time, til the orb crap. Kiyoko being crappy personality wise was still in the fine print but people didn't care because it was good and delivered what it said on the tin for the most part. People would still have been upset either way, but I think it kinda shows in part how much people liked his stuff at first that kiyoko/kinu became the second most common backlash besides Cait.
He *can* write nice erotica too, but he swerves everywhere. I really like the scenes with the kitsune going semi feral, kohaku stuffs nice, but then he has Rindos bacon talk, kiyokos baby bag etc. People that just fluff him up just laugh about it like a meme, but it should just be in the silly mode if at all. He really needs hard management and restraint, but he's in too high a position for it now. He's got too much bias and spite bleeding into his work, and, God forbid, a little bit of *power word* racism against Japanese culture instead of just taking the good stuff and leaving whatever writer thinks is bad.
Besides erotica, his wanting kinu to be the pov and focal point is the biggest problem with his main arc. In a completely different story starting with kinu exclusively it might work, but since you start with a self insert or controlled character, save/raise them, and will be alive for the foreseeable future, imo it really should have been drawn out longer and focused on pc-kiyoko, and her second. Easy changes could be made like her being attacked not being from her pov but the players getting an alarm, and if they don't get there in time, you get "where TF were you", in time you help protect your family, etc.
If she was getting into politics on her own or striking out as a farmer, sure, she can do her own thing and say she needs to do it herself, leaving the nest, growing struggles etc, but in a game where they actively push "no power fantasies", and most fights require multiple skilled characters besides some stuff that makes sense to some extent like gweyr being a hardened war vet, she's just a Mary Sue. Since he writes her like that, PC and all kit characters get sidelined, so they suffer, and kinu herself suffers. He's just kind of rigged the game from the start