well you managed to own up to what you said and hold yourself accountable so I'll give that atleast. And I'll let you in on a little secret. I was also in that thread.
That's me! and I will also admit that I was pretty frustrated as well. I however do not regret posting this at all. Now let me give you a bit of advice going forward
1. Stop whining. You started this with your passive aggressive bullshit. You should have come prepared for a lot of pushback. constant bitching and moaning about insults and getting called out isn't doing anything to help your case.
2. Stop playing dumb. Nobody here is stupid, we all know damn well that you are not holding the devs to the same standards as everyone else. And no, given that you have no credibility here, no one is just going to take your word for it. Go confront them for their shittyness on their forums or discord in a way we can all verify with the same language and zeal your confronting us with and maybe some people here can buy that you aren't completely full of shit.
3. Stop accusing people of cherry picking, taking things out of context, or arguing in bad faith. No one agreed to have a debate with you. No one is obligated to prove anything to you, or concede anything to you, or even acknowledge you. If you want to convince anyone of anything then EVERYTHING is on you.
4. Focus. Stop arguing about every little thing. You keep letting yourself get pulled every which way in the discussion when you should be focused on getting your point across and nothing else.
If you follow this advice you might start to make some headway.