Oh!... Well... Ermm... Ok. I am somewhat confused now. Based on your comment "lesbians ruin the game", I gather that you don't like lesbian sex. That's ok. Everyone has their personal tastes. But... then you say "you don't feel turned on watching other people fuck". So... I gather that you never watch porn because that would be "watching other people fuck" and also... you do know that when you play one of these games, you're not the one fucking, right? It's the character... I mean "other people"... And that leads me to ask... What are you doing here?
It's right in the description of the game, " You play as a
Fashion Designer who works at a famous company while he lives in a suburban town away from his family"
You play as. So it's a story from the MC's perspective. Kinda like Mass Effect. You play as Commander Shepard. If in Mass Effect the story starts focusing on, let's say, the adventures of The Illusive Man, you'd be pissed. You're here to play as Commander Shepard, immerse yourself in that role. Like an actor.
This person is interested in MC's love life, he's not interested in scenes involving other characters love lives. Perfectly understandable and valid gaming concept, it also applies to if you're playing a role in a school play or movie production. Role playing games give you a chance to play a fantasy role.