I don't mind some soft femdom and I figured I could get some male enjoyment out of that as well, but even that felt a little half baked. I went a defiant route and was going to fuck around with kylar, got the event where she's sniffing your bedding and I chose the tease option. Why does my character, a male, sit in her lap, doing essentially nothing for her, when it would make way more sense to instead pull her into my lap? It's the little thingsHard to entirely prevent penetration. Most you can currently do is control who's doing it, and mitigate how often. You can make sure there's only women, and none with dicks (you can also have men with no dicks). Make sure there's no strapons, and maybe turn off sex toys too. Probably turn off basically all bestiality. Then you should almost never be penetrated, mostly. You'll remain pretty passive, since not a dom game.