Honestly, VPNs are just proxy computers and you never know who's the owner of those computers... I think TOR is better. But, as a consumer, it works as long as you don't support the game, because, if you do, you'll have to pay somehow and your information will be there. If you download from here or other sites, you're almost safe unless you're specifically targeted... at least I think so... On Patreon, it will be impossible for producers to hide their identities because they'll start to ask proof of identity. Well... this specific content (loli, but also others like incest) is already forbidden, but many producers have games there and also an account with the same game along with more forbidden or greyish stuff on Subscribestar (MrDot's Games, for instance, who have Melody and Sunshine Love on Patreon, and those same games with DMD on Subscribestar). If the powers-that-be decide to track him via Patreon, they will succeed...