Wait wait wait. So between Shani, Zaton and you personally, who is sharing whom with whom?
I believe what
Yngling meant is,
Shani and her interactions, engagements (or relationships) with other men,
NOT SHARING meant
Shani is exclusive to
Zaton (MC) which means that
Shani will not have any relationships with other men except for
Zaton.
If
Shani is her own individual, she should be allowed or freely to engage with any men as she wants, but super majority do not want that. Although I do not see
Shani longing for other men since she is infatuated with
Zaton her whole life (that is a different topic and just based on my opinion). What most (if not all) players want is
Zaton and
Shani just like they were before, but that means
Shani (as a character or main character) lost a bit (but a major part) of her individuality.
In short, players are not given the agency to make the choice for
Shani either to stay in loving, romantic, sexual relationships with
Zaton or pursue others. While most agree with and loving it, some may feel that the agency or choice had been taken away from them, forced into them.
IMHO, it is just not possible to make all possibilites materialized more or less (I am paraphrasing).
I hope I get it right though, it is not easy to understand so many opinions and expressions on so many aspects of this rather complex game, just tackling one aspect is daunting enough to me
. Cheers.