I haven't had a chance to play it yet, so yes, it's possible I'm overreacting. I was mostly concerned about Blackhand's comment that the femdom will "get more intense as the game goes on", as well as the report by that other person that there's still some strong femdom actions against the MC even when choosing the Liliah sub choices.
I'm already planning to, but like a lot of people, I've been burned before by a dev claiming 'light femdom' when it's nothing of the sort, so there's a certain degree of benefit of the doubt that has already long since been used up.
As Blackhand stated, the banner girls will get a lot of narrative focus (which I agree with, it's absolutely essential that there be a smaller set of 'primary LIs' in a game with double-digit LIs), and Liliah is one of seven of those, which is a much larger proportion than one of twenty.
(Edited to correct her name; you got me typing Lilith even though I know her real name, heh.)