is this or tower of trample better
Tower is better by a wide margin in term of quality, art and efforts put. We’re now at a time where Domina versions come just as slowly as floors for ToT. I wish I was kidding, but in the past year plus, we have had a very lackluster version 9.0 for Domina soon after Floor 7 was released publicly. Then followed fairly quickly the the individual public builds for floor 8 and floor 9. Also in term if gameplay, ToT is more grindy but also a better game overall.
So, that being put in consideration, now it only comes to personal taste of yours. The main reason Domina has a huge fanbase is mostly due to its big focus on farting and scat, which a lot of femdom games don’t really provide. Then there's people praising the lore of Domina, but I honestly think they’re high af because even Deka writes on the fly and tries to retcon as he puts a lot of shit together that don’t make sense and says "It’s all about the lore". Domina’s lore is actually awful and very linear. There’s honestly not anything going for it moreso than ToT which also has a very linear lore but it doesn’t try to be too over the top. It stays simple.
I was bored once and listed all the fetishes available in Domina (at least up to 8.0), most Dominas repeat mostly all of them and very little are unique to specific Dominas *cough* Mary *cough*
So all in all… If you like scat, go Domina.
If you like anything else, from visuals to animations, gameplay and so on: Go ToT.
You can go back and try the other if you want. Nothing is stopping you. Those games go by quickly anyway.