I had the pleasure of meeting multiple of those kind irl and a couple of men who are like that too.
But yeah, those who i know personaly are just normal....one couple i'm friends with convienced me to go with them in a gay bars together...first time was kinda funny experience after a couple of beers, but the guys there were all pretty normal.
Beside that my friends often get pissed at those kind of people too and about the shit they talk on social media, or how the media portrais things
The one meeting which is most present in my memory is of a couple of them asking me if it's ok to ask me about my opinion on some things, which i had no problems with. It ended in me getting insulted and labeled as ''the kind of people which are the problem in our society'' because i answered to one of their questions ''I have personaly no interest in trying to date another man, as i am not and never was attracted to men at all''...
Yeah, i would have walked out of that, certainly not spend the entire time watching them making out, flirting and have to listen to Jordan's rant about why straight men suck...
There's also the thing that if devs want to make a relationship with them work the MC needs to be more then just a 3rd wheel, which is sometimes invited for some sex.
Yes, thought i don't think that would work as Jordan is written...in the first place, i see no reason why i have to proof to her that i'm different. Try to be normal and treat the other as equal, maybe you would find out.