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As I said above, in my mind, some sort of ethical non-monogamy, whether poly or poly adjacent, make more sense in a modern world than traditional harems or polygynous marriage.Realistically, yeah, an harem in a modern era is absurd. But you are ignoring two facts, being the first that this is not a realistic story and second that, even rare and absurd, harem relationships have been existing and exist in the real world. How is gonna do it Caribdis is a good question, but is not something impossible, only extremely rare.
That's actually a good idea, IMHO. One way for them to realize their bond among them is almost as important as their bond to Orion.In my opinion something is gonna happen to the MC just after the bomb drop up, maybe being kidnaped or seriously injured, the girls are gonna ignore the harem problem and they will focus on MC's problem, and then with more time just accept that the harem is not a bad situation, just strange, and maybe even hot (Caribdis is giving clues about threesomes and more, maybe my dreaming threesome MC-Dalia-Penny is impossible, but MC-Penny-Nova is gonna happen 100% sure).
But even with that I really expect Alex kicking the MC in the balls for that, and maybe Dalia chasing him for the house when she finds he's been with Penny and with her at the same time. I want drama, but the funny one.
Yes, polyamory isn't for everyone.I cant comment on the relationships part because I'm biased monogamy is in my blood
but it's always weird in these games that all the girls react to it the same way
girls are supposed to have different personalities but they're all okay with him being with other women
you expect me to believe that out of all these women, none of them feel jealousy
or anger
but again I'm biased because monogamy is in my blood and it's the only way I play
monogamy for life
Yes. I've come to realize that I have no time for the manipulative MC's in the games. I'm much happier playing characters who genuinely care for all of his partners and wants what is best for them, unlike certain others *COUGH*Max*COUGH*That's cool, I'm with you in real life, polyamorous relationship is not for me, the cons are bigger than the pros, but in this type of games the idea of making every girl happy is always a plus for me.
Very true. I've seen a lot of games/stories where the characters are nothing more than mannequins going through the motions. No sense of them being real characters.There is a difference between having a realistic story and having realistic characters. You absolutely don't need the former (and the game doesn't have a realistic story), but you absolutely need the latter for the audience/players/readers (depending on the medium) to be able to connect to your story. And so far the game delivered on realistic feeling characters, that is why it works so well.
The fact that he has not yet told the women he's in relationship with that he's not monogamous, portends some future conflict. I'm reminded how in Grandma's House, Thomas is VERY clear with all the women of his life. Usually before they have PiV sex, which is very important.So when all of those characters would somehow and without any conflict just be okay with being part of a harem, that would be weird, because that isn't how most real people would react. Also - so far - it very much seems like relationships in the world of Eternum (the VN, not the in-game...game) seem to follow pretty much the same rules and conventions as they do in our real world, meaning people have monogamous relationships, everything else would be viewed as cheating or having an affair.
I agree. At one point, I had three partners simultaneously. That's probably my "poly-saturation" point. To have seven or eight would be fantasy (though I knew some women who had more than six men and women in their "polycule."It is a harem game - it is not meant to be realistic. With almost any harem game I play wish fulfillment and suspension of disbelief is a given so no jealousy etc is exactly the kind of reaction I expect from the girls. And there is nothing wrong with that. You have both realistic games and harem games like this. They are just two different types of games that take different approaches. One type is not better than the other type and all games being the exact same and having the same approach would be boring as fuck so as far as I am concerned diversity and having different types of games is good for AVNs as a whole.
True, there is no chance of adding One True Love content if you reject the others. It will just make for a rather empty game.I also think that this game is written to be a harem game and both the game and the dev are pretty upfront about it so having incorrect expectations might just disappoint you. Rejecting a subset of girls or even all of them is an option but if you are going into the game with the expectation that there will be fully fleshed out paths with vastly different content from the harem option I think you will only end up disappointing yourself. Personally I think the not selecting certain girls routes is just going to be a 'skip content' option and there might be a separate solo girl ending similar to once in a lifetime. But that's about it. I dont think you will get anything more.
I think that one thing that we find in the "cheating harem" games is that even though Orion hasn't explicitly stated that he's in multiple relationships, it should be pretty clear to all the women involved that he has strong bonds with the others. All it will take, for good or ill, is for one woman to be a bit more observant. The evidence is right in front of them.Oh boy there's too much to answer but talking about monogamy in Eternum is going to give me eczema so I'll be brief on that one, just a little quote and back to waiting for that storm to pass.
For everyone who don't know yet : we've already established that the harem path is 300% the canon path in Eternum. We know that because first OiAL is a harem, and second there's a clear build up to that (thinking about threesomes, Penny and Nova, the fun banter between Dalia and Penny, Nancy being suspicious of Annie who almost spill the beans, or just straight up the fact that we just miss some scenes by ignoring a girl...). So far, Caribdis seems to build up to it pretty nicely. This is not some "forced harem" like some devs try to do, Eternum is meant to go this way. Honestly I think this is one of the reason it's so good : not only all the girls are great and unique, but also you know you don't have to choose because Caribdis is going to make them accept it slowly and still keep the character's reactions realistic and not contradictory.
As for it being realistic, it is in the context of the story and the characters so far (it's called consistancy).
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So yeah you can keep talking about your monogamous playthroughs, but just don't go and think that the harem path is not the canon path now.
If you want monogamy, this is the wrong game for it. Harem will always find a way in Eternum.
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I'll have to look up their work.Yeah, I agree that's why I said that about it being strange, it's not easy to write a good harem story because it's not realistic nowadays ( exception exist of course, but that's what they are) to have so many women having a committed relations with a man, not something casual but wanting to share him for the rest of their lives.
Like I wrote few authors made a somewhat realistic approach to a real harem ( it's a wrong term though, a polyamorous relations is more correct), Talothral with Sorcerer did it in my opinion, and Perverteer too with Sisterly Lust ( the moment Reachel confronted MC after finding it with the other sister Bella was very good), and even then the end was a little weak though it was better than most because it's difficult to believe in it.
It was the way most developers handled multiple relationships that first inspired me to start my own projects.And Caribdis in Eternum is working good premises for it, we will see what happen, one thing is certain harem/poly are just a fantasy they are the less realistic things possible, and that what's make them interesting to me, providing that the story is good enough to let the suspension of disbelief let pass the fact that too many women loving the same man is a weird thing as you said.
To enjoy a harem game you really need to not think too much and take it as lightly as possible or else it will not work, that's what I do and that's why I play very few of them to the full extent.![]()
I think everyone has their unique "blind spot" in these matters.Isn't it interesting that some people who readily accept the fantastic premise of this game itself, find accepting polyamory/harem troublesome?
Not wrong, just interesting.