Recommending Femdom Finder

[Ianuda]

I see lezdom as completely femdom. I define femdom as: domination by females.

I can clearly see the merit in (((facts and logic))) (queue the echo effect)... but what is domination (queue the Vsauce theme)?

It's not even a meme, I for one genuinely fail to find femdom in cucklodry - because the female literally submits to the venerated black bull. But ironically, this is exactly the image normies have of femdom folks - they call us cucks!

I went as far as to doubt pegging as femdom because you can cum from your ass. Do prostate orgasms trigger you, @Aseratix? Oh wait, I don't remember any game with pegging orgasms in this reality (feel free to enlighten me if they exist). That's one off the ambiguity list!

(You may laugh, but I legit never saw a handsfree prostate orgasm on my screen before 2021. It's literally the most hidden secret of the Internet. Not a single professional Western or JAV video features it. And even in the 90% of amateur content, the guy cums from jerking - which in turn strikes me as gay.) So yeah, pegging is an act of service where the girl doesn't get any sensual stimulation at all - aside from emotional attachment, which can also be achieved by I dunno farting for some.

Whipping, farting, urination - all selfless services. The only real femdom act is cunnilingus. With chastity ofc.

 

[Platinum_Flame]

Why do you qualify lesbian/lezdom/yuri games as femdom? Imo, they're as far removed from femdom as futadom. This is arbitrary af. I don't want to be blunt, but I hate the impression you give of femdom to the world at large.

My constructive suggestion would be to split femdom into subtags: cumming vanilla femdom, lezdom, futadom, harsh female supremacy, inbetween. But what do I know. I am merely more tolerant.

The fifth column of the list (orientation; protagonist) already serves the purpose of separating games by who the dom and protagonist are (lesdom; futadom; etc). As for the other subtags you've suggested, there are no precise borders between them. And, depending on what you mean by vanilla vs harsh femdom, it's probably covered by either the domination level or by fetishes listed.
How are your tags more "tolerant" than the current ones?

I'm actually pleasantly surprised how such a femdom game has become successful - isn't femdom the most despised genre of all (just read the nHentai comments)?

The answer is simple: there are hundreds of millions of people into bdsm, large portion of which likes femdom. So there is more than enough potential audience to be popular. People who don't like femdom just aren't a part of the game's audience. They contribute 0 to the success, not -1.

 

[Platinum_Flame]

I can clearly see the merit in (((facts and logic))) (queue the echo effect)... but what is domination (queue the Vsauce theme)?

It's not even a meme, I for one genuinely fail to find femdom in cucklodry - because the female literally submits to the venerated black bull. But ironically, this is exactly the image normies have of femdom folks - they call us cucks!

I went as far as to doubt pegging as femdom because you can cum from your ass.

So yeah, pegging is an act of service where the girl doesn't get any sensual stimulation at all - aside from emotional attachment, which can also be achieved by I dunno farting for some.

Whipping, farting, urination - all selfless services. The only real femdom act is cunnilingus. With chastity ofc.

Who's said that the female must submit in cuckoldry? Because they have sex with somebody? So, do you think that all penetrative sex is maledom now? I think it's hard to argue that the cuck himself is in the subservient position, though.

Good job equating all femdom to orgasm denial. I will also blow your mind by telling you that people may feel sexual pleasure without direct stimulation to their genitals so what you said about no stimulation and selfless services is a blatant lie.

 

[Aseratrix]

It's not even a meme, I for one genuinely fail to find femdom in cucklodry - because the female literally submits to the venerated black bull. But ironically, this is exactly the image normies have of femdom folks - they call us cucks!

Cuckolding is a fetish some people have which may or may not intersect with femdom. They are not the same.
Femdom is a genre, not merely a fetish in that it encompasses every fetish in which females are in a dominant status. Cuckolding is a particular fetish, but its not a subgenre of femdom, but most likely a variation of NTR. They can mix, however neither requires the other.

Normies are ignorant, and those normies which casually kinkshame others are ignorant AND irrelevant. Those who associate everything femdom with "cuck" don't know what they are talking about and their goal is to hate you, no matter if you actually like cuckolding or not.

In fact, cases where the "black bull" also dominates the male sub should be best called Bixexual Domination, or "bidom".

Bring on your self-ascribed tolerance, mate. But I do agree that cuckolding is not inherently femdom.

I went as far as to doubt pegging as femdom because you can cum from your ass. Do prostate orgasms trigger you, @Aseratix? Oh wait, I don't remember any game with pegging orgasms in this reality (feel free to enlighten me if they exist). That's one off the ambiguity list!

Pegging is a fetish some subs have, and it can be part of femdom, if it serves as a form of domination by the female and a sense of subordination by the sub [of either sex]. I however don't have this particular fetish. Even if I had it, I somehow wouldn't want to speak about my prostate if you'll excuse me. Pegging leaves me completely cold. But other people like it, and its usually performed in a femdom context as a form of humiliation I suppose.

Once again: femdom is domination by females. The particular fetishes and ways through which people experience and display this power dynamic varies from person to person. There are a lot of fetishes which for one person or another expresses the femdom dynamic. Its not up to me or you to judge or dispute anyone's fetishes. Femdom is the general scaffolding which can be expressed in many ways, and via many different fetishes. No single person into femdom has all the fetishes possible to be experienced in a femdom context. I like many of them, but not all.

Once again, rely on your tolerance.

I won't entertain your part about prostate orgasms, because its really irrelevant and kinda rude towards those who have it. Let them decide whether they enjoy pegging because of physical pleasure or psycho-sexual reasons like humiliation.

Whipping, farting, urination - all selfless services. The only real femdom act is cunnilingus. With chastity ofc.

And you want to claim, you are the more tolerant person here? Seriously? What you said is not only completely intolerant, and short-sighted, but patently wrong. Cunnilingus by itself is part of normal, vanilla sexuality. It becomes femdom if it is performed in a way in which the female is expressing domination with it. This is the same with the other items as well.

I will write the next part with caps lock, because I want you to really consider it:

I ASK YOU: PLEASE CEASE DERAILING THIS THREAD. IF YOU WANT TO DEBATE ME THEN PM ME OR MAKE A THREAD FOR THE PURPOSES OF DEBATING. THANK YOU!

 

[Aseratrix]

I will also blow your mind by telling you that people may feel sexual pleasure without direct stimulation to their genitals so what you said about no stimulation and selfless services is a blatant lie.

Absolutely agreed! Femdom can be very psychological, psycho-sexual.

 

[Platinum_Flame]

What you have in mind ...

Let's either stop this conversation or move it somewhere else. As Aseratix has already said, this thread is not meant for debates. It's meant to recommend and help people find femdom games.

 

[Aseratrix]

To be fair, now I'm curious whether Aseratix equates orgasm denial to chastity. The idea of this thread has been that cumming = evil (fapstronauts, rejoice), but it could be not the case that chastity = necessary.

Orgasm denial does not necessarily requires a chastity instrument. It can be a requirement from the dominant female, such as orgasm denial by command.

The idea that "cumming is bad" was not the idea of the thread. Threads are inanimate, they don't have ideas. If there was any talk about "cumming" in any negative sense, that was solely my dissatisfaction with games that FOCUS on male ejaculation and male pleasure rather than the other way around. If females are at all to be celebrated and elevated in femdom, then in my opinion it makes sense that the more femdom a game is, the more it FOCUSES on the female's assumed dominant pleasure, and not on the male's orgasm. If there is any porn genre at all which focuses on the female in the ocean of male focused porn, then which would fit better than femdom, other than pure lesbian porn of course.

Just to be clear: it is me alone, and those who agree [and not everybody agrees], who likes femdom better, when the ZOOM, the FOCUS the CENTER the CULMINATION is not the male cock, not the male ejaculation and male pleasure. This however does not mean, what you think it means, namely that femdom needs to always include orgasm denial or chastity. Let me explain what I mean by an example:

Scene: the sexy female is standing on the face of our lucky MC

Femdom: the pleasure for you should be seeing her triumphantly standing on your face, feeling the submissive goodies

Not so Femdom: the camera swaps from the Scene and hones in on the MC's dick as it spurts a copious amount of sperm

As you can clearly see from the above example, there is no chastity involved, not even orgasm denial. The difference is solely on the focus.

Sorry for derailing, I will stop.

I thank you, and as soon as you'll do I will feel the gratitude too.

 

[lakano]

Orgasm denial does not necessarily requires a chastity instrument. It can be a requirement from the dominant female, such as orgasm denial by command.

The idea that "cumming is bad" was not the idea of the thread. Threads are inanimate, they don't have ideas. If there was any talk about "cumming" in any negative sense, that was solely my dissatisfaction with games that FOCUS on male ejaculation and male pleasure rather than the other way around. If females are at all to be celebrated and elevated in femdom, then in my opinion it makes sense that the more femdom a game is, the more it FOCUSES on the female's assumed dominant pleasure, and not on the male's orgasm. If there is any porn genre at all which focuses on the female in the ocean of male focused porn, then which would fit better than femdom, other than pure lesbian porn of course.

Just to be clear: it is me alone, and those who agree [and not everybody agrees], who likes femdom better, when the ZOOM, the FOCUS the CENTER the CULMINATION is not the male cock, not the male ejaculation and male pleasure. This however does not mean, what you think it means, namely that femdom needs to always include orgasm denial or chastity. Let me explain what I mean by an example:

Scene: the sexy female is standing on the face of our lucky MC

Femdom: the pleasure for you should be seeing her triumphantly standing on your face, feeling the submissive goodies

Not so Femdom: the camera swaps from the Scene and hones in on the MC's dick as it spurts a copious amount of sperm

As you can clearly see from the above example, there is no chastity involved, not even orgasm denial. The difference is solely on the focus.



I thank you, and as soon as you'll do I will feel the gratitude too.

I partially agree with you we have the same taste i prefeer the pleasing of the femdom over the sub actively reciving a orgasem thats why i woild prefer a game about doing menial to heroic tasks to please a femdom things a woman might actually want and need irl then say sniff her socks

Mistress of the forest did this well where you actively serve a dominant female for political or personal reasons outside of sex

Where i disagree is with your vauge definition of what is more or less femdom its femdom it isent a unit of measurment

 

[Ianuda]

Mistress of the forest did this well where you actively serve a dominant female for political or personal reasons outside of sex

Don't forget the part where the main hero's soul was bound to the girl's in a magic ritual, that's very hot. Magic femdom is a supremely underrepresented subgenre (such as Magebuster (!), Katalist or Slave High).

Not to be misunderstood, I fully agree that male orgasms bother me in femdom games. Always have, even though I'm not into anything extreme. My tolerance comes into play when I'd give the benefit of the doubt to people who consider it femdom... Now that I'm looking into it, you did include Monster Girl Dreams! Huh?

 

[Deleted member 1536527]

Now I personally mainly like pegging, its really the only thing that got me into femdom. Cause I don't think there can be any more "purer" form of humiliation than being literally fucked by a woman as a woman.

I don't think the male orgasm should be of any concern for this list, as long as there's domination/humiliation it should be eligible to be here. For me personally the male getting an orgasm is irrelevant, as long as there is some form of domination going on I'm on board. If it somehow ties into the humiliation aspect then all the better. Like e.g. I remember watching this pegging video a while ago, where the dom was saying something like "if you cum I know you're a buttslut/sissy", and the sub was really trying not to cum but came anyway, confirming what the dom said. The male getting the orgasm made it even better, because it added to the humiliation.

 

[Aseratrix]

Don't forget the part where the main hero's soul was bound to the girl's in a magic ritual, that's very hot. Magic femdom is a supremely underrepresented subgenre (such as Magebuster (!), Katalist or Slave High).

Not to be misunderstood, I fully agree that male orgasms bother me in femdom games. Always have, even though I'm not into anything extreme. My tolerance comes into play when I'd give the benefit of the doubt to people who consider it femdom... Now that I'm looking into it, you did include Monster Girl Dreams! Huh?

There is a lot of soft femdom, CTRL F "soft".

I did just that, searching soft in my list yielded 121 results. Searching hard yielded only 61. That's how biased I am

 

[lakano]

Don't forget the part where the main hero's soul was bound to the girl's in a magic ritual, that's very hot. Magic femdom is a supremely underrepresented subgenre (such as Magebuster (!), Katalist or Slave High).

Not to be misunderstood, I fully agree that male orgasms bother me in femdom games. Always have, even though I'm not into anything extreme. My tolerance comes into play when I'd give the benefit of the doubt to people who consider it femdom... Now that I'm looking into it, you did include Monster Girl Dreams! Huh?

Magebuste ? Is it any good ?

 

[Aseratrix]

The male getting the orgasm made it even better, because it added to the humiliation.

In other words the focus was on the humiliation. Yes, I can understand that.

 

[lakano]

Don't forget the part where the main hero's soul was bound to the girl's in a magic ritual, that's very hot. Magic femdom is a supremely underrepresented subgenre (such as Magebuster (!), Katalist or Slave High).

Not to be misunderstood, I fully agree that male orgasms bother me in femdom games. Always have, even though I'm not into anything extreme. My tolerance comes into play when I'd give the benefit of the doubt to people who consider it femdom... Now that I'm looking into it, you did include Monster Girl Dreams! Huh?

I love magical femdom but i want somethibg more sci fi i kond of liked what femdom asylum was doing ...more human expiermentation type stuff or defenestration but with femdom instead of creely old rusoan dudes i just want more medical brainwashing femdom

 

[Platinum_Flame]

Don't forget the part where the main hero's soul was bound to the girl's in a magic ritual, that's very hot. Magic femdom is a supremely underrepresented subgenre (such as Magebuster (!), Katalist or Slave High).

If you don't mind text based games, you can try Magic Femdom (link in the list)

 

[Etheric]

Alright, I have finished your post, it's interesting feedback. Maybe I'm enough of an autistic virgin to suspend my disbelief enough? I barely have any human interaction to compare, lol. Although the Virtual Succubus is really popular on Patreon, which fact does bewilder me - are they all the fabled "loser virgins"? Or do they not consider the game femdom? I'm actually pleasantly surprised how such a femdom game has become successful - isn't femdom the most despised genre of all (just read the nHentai comments)?

Femdom is the huge vanilla compare to many thing hentai can offer.... comments on rule34 or doujinshi are usually stupid and worthless to even read so you shouldn't care at all with these people
However I can understand when people feel weird about femdom, there a lot of games where the protagonist turn into a bitch for absolute no reason or accept humiliation for some dumb reason and obvious this cleary frustrate some people and the domme act like an asshole just because...

 

[Etheric]

Another one
https://f95zone.to/threads/the-bridegroom-training-diary-of-tsumugi-sama-sadistic-alice.10213/

 

[Memetic Hazard]

Just stumbled on this repository, great job Aseratrix!

There was this other game I remember - Second Girl's Happiness by Obrecht13. Had a good potential but unfortunately got abandoned relatively quick.

Narrative Content: significant
Other Paths: Yes, maledom
Domination Level: soft (I’d say)
Femdom Focus: mixed [femdom with some characters]
[Fetish Variety]: [wide]
Examples: psychological-domination, foot worship, foot-job, exploitation, findom, humiliation, hypnosis
Orientation: hetero/lesbian [narrative];
Protagonist: male
Genre: choice based visual novel
Art Style: daz renders (I think)
Game Engine: Ren'Py
Status: Abandoned =(
Dev: Obrecht13
Observations: amazing renders, slow start but methodical, story got improved each chapter
Important: short (-lived)

 

[Mister_M]

BTW do you about the games by Tastysox? He made 6 pixel graphics games (online) focusing on foot/sock fetish. There are femdom elements there: slavery, giantess can trample MC to death, verbal humiliation and obviously foot worship. You can try them here, I think they could be added to the list in one bunch as soft femdom with functional plot.

You must be registered to see the links

It seems he's making a new game now.

 

[Ianuda]

In other words the focus was on the humiliation. Yes, I can understand that.

And to me, the focus is on the male's getting serviced a prostate orgasm by a cute gentle domme. I'm too autistic to get the humiliation aspect. (I had to write this because I hate that humiliation is so prevalent. And because I could see you discard this fantasy as not femdom enough.)

...What's your opinion on 2D pixel-art side-scrollers such as Super Mamono Sisters, Nayla's Castle, Drain Mansion by Kredyn or Lost Case by Zolvatory?
hemdomblog com/2021/06/super-mamono-sisters-english-version.html
f95zone to/threads/naylas-castle-v0-7-public-quidev.70149/
kredyn itch io/drain-mansion
zolvatory itch io/lost-case-monster-girl-takeover