Recommending Femdom Finder

[baxtus]

I don't enjoy it when I see women hurt, so if the sub female doesn't have an over-bearing focus on, then I can replace her artificially in my mind with myself, and can enjoy it. While I'm also not fond of seeing male bodies, especially their "weapon", I can more easily identify with them. I concentrate on the dominant females anyway. And you know, now that I am thinking about it, it makes more sense for me that supremely beautiful creatures [females] dominate utterly ugly ones [males] more that it is for them to dominate each other. But yeah, I have no objections against lezdom, but if I'd make a game it would definitely be a hetero game with two routes: male-sub and female dominant.

To each their own, although personally, I'd rather see two beautiful creatures, and not all lezdom requires pain, a good example is Madam's Maid, the game is pure Lezdom, but there is almost no pain, just a light spanking scene. The game only really works since both characters are female, and ends up pretty wholesome (for a porn game).

 

[TuffSub]

But hetman as a title was used in Ukraine, Poland, Lithuania, Bohemia, Romania and Moldavia, and it's still used, albeit with different meaning, in Czech Republic.

and in neighboring countries the term exists, though with some linguistic drifts. I know someone, originally from Minsk, whose name is derived from Getman, having the same meaning.

 

[Aseratrix]

Elżbieta Łokietkówna was a strong woman too, she was also a hungarian queen so you know about her I guess. The case of the attempted assassination of her is somewhat interesting too.

About her I didn't knew this:

"While at court in Hungary, Elizabeth is credited as having been the first to introduce perfume, then known as

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, to Europe and the western world."

I will now proceed and call perfume Hungary Water, from now on

Ps: the most femdom ruler I can remember now was probably IRENE the empress of Byzantium.

 

[Aseratrix]

To each their own, although personally, I'd rather see two beautiful creatures, and not all lezdom requires pain, a good example is Madam's Maid, the game is pure Lezdom, but there is almost no pain, just a light spanking scene. The game only really works since both characters are female, and ends up pretty wholesome (for a porn game).

I do love Madam's Maid.

 

[TuffSub]

Wallis Simpson, the paramour of Edward VIII of the UK (for whom he abdicated) was clearly dominant in the relationship, though there are no evidence of what they did behind closed doors.

 

[Mister_M]

Its hard to find many females in medieval history with a femdom vibe. Its already femdom as it gets to rule a powerful country, and do it well We have Elisabeth Báthory the closest to an evil femdom character tho [but it may also be that she was simply smeared with untruths mixed with truth in order to gain her wealth by unscurpulous male nobles].

Definitely not the best times to be a woman, that's for sure. I guess the fact that she became a saint weighs most heavily on my not accepting her as a any kind of femdom figure. Would be interesting to know how many of these strong willed women of the past was really interested in femdom.

 

[Aseratrix]

Definitely not the best times to be a woman, that's for sure. I guess the fact that she became a saint weighs most heavily on my not accepting her as a any kind of femdom figure. Would be interesting to know how many of these strong willed women of the past was really interested in femdom.

There are depictions in medieval grimoires of women flagellating males as part of "sacred penance" or some made up religious bullshit in order to sneak in some femdom

 

[Aseratrix]

Wallis Simpson, the paramour of Edward VIII of the UK (for whom he abdicated) was clearly dominant in the relationship, though there are no evidence of what they did behind closed doors.

I heard somewhere that in their relationship between Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie, she was the dominant in bed.

 

[Aseratrix]

Definitely not the best times to be a woman, that's for sure. I guess the fact that she became a saint weighs most heavily on my not accepting her as a any kind of femdom figure. Would be interesting to know how many of these strong willed women of the past was really interested in femdom.

Few would probably admit it. But them prioritizing Mary shows some dim form of Goddess worship clad in Christian garbs, and I am sure ordering about a bunch of males made some them rather hot.

 

[Aseratrix]

A nice trashy pop song for the femdom chess game's theme:

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[Kxca]

the most femdom ruler I can remember now was probably IRENE the empress of Byzantium

Are you speaking about that Irene, who had her son's eyes gouged out to get sole control over Byzantine? She's just plain cruel.

 

[Aseratrix]

Are you speaking about that Irene, who had her son's eyes gouged out to get sole control over Byzantine? She's just plain cruel.

Yes, that's the one I love evil women.

PS: let's forget that in those times there was hardly any less cruel rulers [the number of deposed, maimed, killed, and variously tortured relatives of male rulers are glossed over]. But Irene was a female, so she can be singled out negatively for free. Well, then I single her out positively, at least I have a reason to admire her that among all the males in a male dominated world she reached as high as possible.

 

[Jaike]

We have Elisabeth Báthory the closest to an evil femdom character tho [but it may also be that she was simply smeared with untruths mixed with truth in order to gain her wealth by unscurpulous male nobles].

And I thought you didn't like lezdom!

That she was involved in several sadistic murders is close to a historical fast, though how many victims there were is uncertain. The people who seriously propagate different readings are so strongly biased that they are not worth anyone's time.

There are depictions in medieval grimoires of women flagellating males as part of "sacred penance" or some made up religious bullshit in order to sneak in some femdom

Other way around, the only purpose of these activities were religious, reading femdom into it is secondary.

Few would probably admit it. But them priotitizing Mary shows some dim form of Goddess worship clad in Christian garbs, and I am sure ordering about a bunch of males made some them rather hot.

Eh, no. It is just the usual tendency of folk religion to create embroideries on more approachable figures and ignoring distant characters. No goddess worship there.

 

[Aseratrix]

And I thought you didn't like lezdom!

Never said I didn't, [I always said I mentally replace the sex of the subs] of course not on the level of her alleged deeds. She also tortured male servants as well, allegedly.

me:

"I don't enjoy it when I see women hurt, so if the sub female doesn't have an over-bearing focus on, then I can replace her artificially in my mind with myself, and can enjoy it."

That she was involved in several sadistic murders is close to a historical fast, though how many victims there were is uncertain. The people who seriously propagate different readings are so strongly biased that they are not worth anyone's time.

It seems close but then, not really, it just has taken on a pop meme life of its own and now it refuses to be challenged. But in reality several respected historical authorities have begun to doubt the story. I also read some, and even transcripts from her trials, there is way more to the story than it was assumed. I think, treating a shady historically unchallenged narrative with many grey areas as settled, is a disservice to finding out the actual facts of the matter.

Just 1 example of the growing many:

"In a 2018 article for Przegląd Nauk Historycznych (Historical Science Review) Aleksandra Bartosiewicz stated that Báthory was persecuted, the accusations a spectacle to destroy her family’s influence in the region which was considered a threat to the political interests of her neighbors, including the

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empire.

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Other way around...

False! I don't remember right now the exact work I saw it in, but there were definitely depictions of females whipping males. It was definitely an example from a medieval grimoire.
You are probably thinking about the flagellant movement, I am not. Its easy to confuse what I was referencing with that one.

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"The tale of Phyllis and Aristotle is a medieval

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about the triumph of a seductive woman, Phyllis, over the greatest male intellect, the ancient Greek philosopher

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. It is one of several

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stories from that time. Among early versions is the French Lai d'Aristote from 1220."

....the only purpose of these activities were religious, reading femdom into it is secondary.
Whether its reading femdom into it, or reinterpreting it correctly as the actual motive is

I was being quite tongue in cheek with this one, obviously not enough, but my joke I think has more actual merit than you give it credit.

Since religion is bullshit, every religious "reason" if analysed a bit deeper reveals that the true motivations are way outside anything "divine", the pure fact of us living in a godless universe is a strong clue, but actually analyzing them always yields far more parsimoniously psychological, social and personal reasons, closely fitting a godless reality. Even subjectively sincere religiosity is a transcription of the fear of death, given the object of worship does not exist and for other pertinent reasons I will not go into the details of. So, me thinking religion was used as a pretext for quite a number of "perversions" is not far fetched at all.

Eh, no. It is just the usual tendency of folk religion to create embroideries on more approachable figures and ignoring distant characters. No goddess worship there.

Here you simply ignore, that Christianity defeated a number of pagan deities, especially female pagan deities by transforming/demoting them into saints and semi-deities under the christian doctrine [or preferably demons when they could]. Especially for simple folk, they often saw the representations of Mary and different saints as continuations of their own beliefs in similar characters. This appropriation tactic is widely documented. Even major events/traditions such as christmas [yule] and easter [pagan spring festivities] have overwhelming pagan themes.

I appreciate you correcting me, and I expressed it several times, but I think here you came off too sure of yourself, and I can easily challenge all of them.

I provided direct evidence for almost all my counter-claims. I can offer more if need arises. Let's hope it does not.

 

[Spiritlouis]

may i suggest a "last updated" tab too, so one can see at a glance if there is something new?

 

[Aseratrix]

may i suggest a "last updated" tab too, so one can see at a glance if there is something new?

Can you be more specific how you see that implemented? You made me think, I will come up with something simple, the idea is good. Thanks.

PS: I came up with this: I can make a row containing only the words LATEST BATCH OF UPDATES, and the list continuing below as normal. Then when a new batch arrives, I move this line lower just above the new batch. What do you or anyone else think about this solution? If anyone has a better one, let me know. If its something within my ability to do I will.

 

[Aseratrix]

Another Phyllis Riding Aristotle:

 

[Aseratrix]

And another one too:

 

[Aseratrix]

Another trashy pop song for the discussed chess game:

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[Mister_M]

Nothing is Forever got some early sig pics, this is one of them: