Didn't really play much in the way of lolidom, nor do I really watch anime (I think I saw 3 or 4 series my whole life - I've played a lot more Japanese eroge VNs with femdom or femdom-adjacent content than I watched anime if I really think about it...
) so I wouldn't have the same problem with them as Innocience, but I'm usually very ambivalent towards it. As in, I can like it as much as any other femdom/lezdom game if the writing is good and the dynamic is not unexplainable/ridiculous within the game itself (it's why for example I kinda liked the dynamic of it in Ai Shield, as I found the reasons presented for the femdom of the young bratty princess to be acceptable, or why I loved getting devoured by Cassandra's daughter "Emily" in Monster Girl Quest, the original VN, as she was both pretty and a powerful monster-girl who totally had the ability to defeat and kill Luka, the main hero), but will usually dislike it otherwise.
My new-found favourite Japanese femdom VN, "Steps to love" by Msize, actually has some memory scenes where both the MC and a girl he knew were children and there is femdom content as well, but I'm not sure whether that would meet your definition of lolidom given that the girl in the memories is now a young adult and the main mistress MC can become a slave to. You can try it if you wish as it's not a very long VN and you should be able to complete at least one route in a few hours.
As I said though, I do not think I have played many lolidom-centric games myself, (definitely I do not remember any lezdom where the mistress is far younger than the sub) so which ones would you recommend?