Recommending Femdom Finder

[Innocience]

Good! Because I lost all my patience. You may not realize it, but for pages and pages, every god dammed day, I came to the thread only to find some new small shit going on about how some disagree with my definition. And it takes a raise out of me. I tried diligently to answer them, to no avail. I tried to alter the course of the discussions towards the actual theme of this thread, but some just can't get enough of voluntarily or involuntarily trolling this thread. Which is really fucked up. I have given the definitions, I explained what this thread/list was created to celebrate and feature, anyone who participates should accept those as the premise of this thread, because no matter the mental gymnastics, its a thread I started and I wouldn't have done so not for the used definition!

Yeah no, I got you. You gotta do what's best for you and your sanity. And I will do for mine.
I'm sorry you thought my post was a troll; I just have to accept my opinion is either not well founded, I lacked some crucial reading competence, couldn't get my point across properly or my opinion just doesn't gel here - and to be frank I'd also rather argue a wall than go into any serious discussion here again. Lesson learnt.

 

[Aseratrix]

If you aren't able to handle a discussion dude then Don't reply, you aren't a child, I assume, so I'm not going to baby you. If you are unable to discuss your position like an adult, then just keep quiet and don't reply, don't expect others to hold your hand like a kid. Flying or not flying fucks are irrelevant. Grow up man, no body is forcing you to say anything, and the fact that you can't without a hissy fit is not someone else's problem.

You were disruptive from the start. You have gotten several explanations not just from me, but others too, but you keep just rushing forward with your particular issues. I tolerated it so far, but it ends here!

You came back to point blank state that our experiences must be lies because it doesn't make sense for your arousal patterns? That's not only phenomenally rude, but also quite obtuse! And you dare to suggest I'm acting childish?

I have given you my best answer relating how most submissives experience femdom: aka mostly a mental/psychological arousal. Anyone who is truly into femdom can relate to it. And I wasn't even trying to convince you. And your response to that is that you "don't believe" it so? Who the fuck do you think you are to simply hand-wave away the honest relating - which my initial post was - of my and other's [because others expressed their support for it] experience? And what kind of response could you possibly have expected to that?

When I responded to your sheer incredulity with: "I just told you honestly how I experience it. I don't care if you "buy" it or not. Its my lived experience, I intimately know." - I was basically saying, lets agree to disagree, because I can't accommodate your incredulity. I'm not alone in seeing how your take is at odds with the typical psycho-sexual experience of most subs, in that we don't need direct sexual stimulation to experience the submissive/masochistic jouissance which arises from femdom acts performed on us.

I think its you who should grow up and stop pestering this thread. I only answered you, because I hoped you were asking questions in good faith, and were merely curious how others experience their sexuality here. As it turns out you couldn't care less about our experiences with femdom, and just want to somehow force your understanding of it on us. Now that is really infantile, because it won't happen.

You have no right to tell me on the thread I made to keep quiet, no way dude! Its you who should stay silent, you can go and promote your shit on a thread you made, and leave this one alone!

Consider carefully your next ad hominem attack, because it will be the last as far as I'm concerned.

 

[Aseratrix]

Yeah no, I got you. You gotta do what's best for you and your sanity. And I will do for mine.
I'm sorry you thought my post was a troll; I just have to accept my opinion is either not well founded, I lacked some crucial reading competence, couldn't get my point across properly or my opinion just doesn't gel here - and to be frank I'd also rather argue a wall than go into any serious discussion here again. Lesson learnt.

I can read between the lines. Yes, this thread is not about "serious discussions" about forced gay porn. You should open a thread for that, I'm sure you will find your "intellectual" matches there.

 

[Aseratrix]

...I just wanted to a have a damn list with good femdom content games. And I expected it to resonate with people who are really and mainly or exclusively like me into femdom. I also hoped that we will share games, pics, music, stories, about femdom and cherish females together. I hoped its possible to attract people here who are passionate about this theme, and form a small corner devoid of cocks, jerks, cum-stained perspectives and everything male- and dick centric. The latter was naive to boot.

I do thank those of you here who really participated in the fun [and useful, *nods to submission providers] parts of this long thread, exchanging in good spirits all things femdommy. I wish we could return to that.

Or alternatively lets just face-palm each other. That must work too.

 

[baxtus]

You were disruptive from the start. You have gotten several explanations not just from me, but others too, but you keep just rushing forward with your particular issues. I tolerated it so far, but it ends here!

You came back to point blank state that our experiences must be lies because it doesn't make sense for your arousal patterns? That's not only phenomenally rude, but also quite obtuse! And you dare to suggest I'm acting childish?

I have given you my best answer relating how most submissives experience femdom: aka mostly a mental/psychological arousal. Anyone who is truly into femdom can relate to it. And I wasn't even trying to convince you. And your response to that is that you "don't believe" it so? Who the fuck do you think you are to simply hand-wave away the honest relating - which my initial post was - of my and other's [because others expressed their support for it] experience? And what kind of response could you possibly have expected to that?

When I responded to your sheer incredulity with: "I just told you honestly how I experience it. I don't care if you "buy" it or not. Its my lived experience, I intimately know." - I was basically saying, lets agree to disagree, because I can't accommodate your incredulity. I'm not alone in seeing how your take is at odds with the typical psycho-sexual experience of most subs, in that we don't need direct sexual stimulation to experience the submissive/masochistic jouissance which arises from femdom acts performed on us.

I think its you who should grow up and stop pestering this thread. I only answered you, because I hoped you were asking questions in good faith, and were merely curious how others experience their sexuality here. As it turns out you couldn't care less about our experiences with femdom, and just want to somehow force your understanding of it on us. Now that is really infantile, because it won't happen.

You have no right to tell me on the thread I made to keep quiet, no way dude! Its you who should stay silent, you can go and promote your shit on a thread you made, and leave this one alone!

Consider carefully your next ad hominem attack, because it will be the last as far as I'm concerned.

See the problem is you think that your point of view is the only acceptable view, and you throw a hissy fit when others disagree.

I may not agree with the views of others, but I don't throw a hissy fit, I try and have a friendly discussion.

Over and over in this thread people have pointed out how your point of view is not shared by them, but rather than calmly discuss, or just agree to disagree, you just act like an angry child.

When I pointed out why I didn't agree with your opinion, you immediately got triggered, and this hasn't just happened with me, you've had that same issues with others.

Yeah I didn't agree with others but guess what, they were all mature enough to have a discussion without the drama. Somehow though, you are unable to do so.

Now you're resorting to threats, oh boo hoo for you, seriously. Learn to deal with the fact that people won't always agree with you, and that your view is not the be all and end all.

 

[baxtus]

...I just wanted to a have a damn list with good femdom content games. And I expected it to resonate with people who are really and mainly or exclusively like me into femdom. I also hoped that we will share games, pics, music, stories, about femdom and cherish females together. I hoped its possible to attract people here who are passionate about this theme, and form a small corner devoid of cocks, jerks, cum-stained perspectives and everything male- and dick centric. The latter was naive to boot.

I do thank those of you here who really participated in the fun [and useful, *nods to submission providers] parts of this long thread, exchanging in good spirits all things femdommy. I wish we could return to that.

Or alternatively lets just face-palm each other. That must work too.

Well you know, that requires you acting mature when others have a differing opinion and not gatekeeping with hysterics.

You can have your view, and others can have theirs, and if you enjoy the discussion and debate, engage.

If you don't, then just agree to disagree, and agree to end the discussion. It doesn't have to be one acceptable view only.

 

[Jaike]

Please go take a chill pill already, all of you. Aseratrix's thread, his rules, gatekeeping or not. Maybe we could dedicate this topic to game discussion instead of semantic discussions about the definition of femdom.

 

[Aseratrix]

Trolls put on ignore.

I didn't sign up for this idiocy.

 

[baxtus]

Aseratrix's thread, his rules, gatekeeping or not.

I'm afraid we will have to agree to disagree on this.

 

[Aseratrix]

OP updated:

DISCLAIMER
IF YOU DON'T AGREE WITH THE ABOVE DEFINITIONS AND EXCLUSIONS OR CONSIDER IT TOO NARROW, THIS LIST AND THREAD IS NOT FOR YOU, PLEASE AVOID IT. KEEPING THINGS CLEARLY DEFINED IS NOT GATE-KEEPING, ITS FOR THE SAKE OF MAKING VITAL DISTINCTIONS AND QUALITY CONTROL. ​

 

[Anonymous100]

Ok changing topics, I had a sort of suggestion. Since most games get updated and therefore have content added or even changed in certain cases. Maybe it'd be helpful if you specified which version of a game was out when you added the specific game to the list.

 

[saddlface]

Why come into a damn thread and argue about what the topic should be when there's like a page and a half explaining it in the OP. If that aint what you like then start your own thread about forced bi or lezdom games or whatever the fuck you want and call it what you want.

 

[Aseratrix]

Ok changing topics, I had a sort of suggestion. Since most games get updated and therefore have content added or even changed in certain cases. Maybe it'd be helpful if you specified which version of a game was out when you added the specific game to the list.

That would be a major thing to do retrospectively, but its a very good idea. I will add version numbers to the "important" section from now on, and one day [when? ] I will backtrack to the games already in the list.

 

[Mister_M]

A propos updates, I think Femdom Police could be safely marked as abandoned, and - despite my big hopes - Domina School seems unlikely to be continued either. I know that the dev wrote smth on his Patreon on 24th of October, but since I am no longer his supporter I don't know what that is, plus he's been quiet on discord and F95, where one could freely talk with him earlier. Shame, cause imo the game looked really great.

BTW I've played today Welcome to Free Will, not a femdom game, though dev has femdom in planned fetishes list (and I consider it enough to mention the game here). There are some foot fetish scenes there however if someone's interested (some kissing, massages, 1 double footjob [though I'm not a fan of these, this one was quite nicely presented], and often during flirting women are using their feet quite a lot if only for short moments and in some instances the dev really makes it known that their feet are sweaty. Honestly, despite some issues (like MC's abuse of alcohol few times and unavoidable sex flashbacks and dreams) I found this game pretty interesting and fun to play. I hope that the femdom content will be equally interesting (though I assume it will be soft and scarce), even though I kinda locked myself on 1 LI route.

Oh, and last Luna's Fall from Grace update added at least 1 lezdom scene.

 

[baxtus]

Why come into a damn thread and argue about what the topic should be when there's like a page and a half explaining it in the OP. If that aint what you like then start your own thread about forced bi or lezdom games or whatever the fuck you want and call it what you want.

Except I did, LOL

From his definition:

worshiped and the focus needs to be on her pleasure

female domination // hence subs can be male, female or futa, but the doms can only be female

So I used his definition when discussing, and he still got triggered by it

 

[Aseratrix]

A propos updates, I think Femdom Police could be safely marked as abandoned, and - despite my big hopes - Domina School seems unlikely to be continued either. I know that the dev wrote smth on his Patreon on 24th of October, but since I am no longer his supporter I don't know what that is, plus he's been quiet on discord and F95, where one could freely talk with him earlier. Shame, cause imo the game looked really great.

BTW I've played today Welcome to Free Will, not a femdom game, though dev has femdom in planned fetishes list (and I consider it enough to mention the game here). There are some foot fetish scenes there however if someone's interested (some kissing, massages, 1 double footjob [though I'm not a fan of these, this one was quite nicely presented], and often during flirting women are using their feet quite a lot if only for short moments and in some instances the dev really makes it known that their feet are sweaty. Honestly, despite some issues (like MC's abuse of alcohol few times and unavoidable sex flashbacks and dreams) I found this game pretty interesting and fun to play. I hope that the femdom content will be interesting (though I assume it will be soft and scarce), even though I kinda locked myself on 1 LI route.

Oh, and last Luna's Fall from Grace update added at least 1 lezdom scene.

In the following days I will do some updates and checks, thanks! It will be a pain in the ass tho digging up the update parts from the mess of the last several pages...

PS: I think that Femdom City clone with those fancy graphics will also be abandoned.

 

[Mister_M]

In the following days I will do some updates and checks, thanks! It will be a pain in the ass tho digging up the update parts from the mess of the last several pages...

Maybe copy some parts of posts to notebook or smth and just keep them for later, so you won't need to look for them. And I'll always try to write what new kinks or changes games I play will have if I'll feel their big enough to warrant modifying the finder.

 

[Aseratrix]

Maybe copy some parts of posts to notebook or smth and just keep them for later, so you won't need to look for them. And I'll always try to write what new kinks or changes games I play will have if I'll feel their big enough to warrant modifying the finder.

That is a brilliant and obvious solution...yeah, so obvious it didn't occur to me.

 

[LAKueiJin]

OP updated:

DISCLAIMER
IF YOU DON'T AGREE WITH THE ABOVE DEFINITIONS AND EXCLUSIONS OR CONSIDER IT TOO NARROW, THIS LIST AND THREAD IS NOT FOR YOU, PLEASE AVOID IT. KEEPING THINGS CLEARLY DEFINED IS NOT GATE-KEEPING, ITS FOR THE SAKE OF MAKING VITAL DISTINCTIONS AND QUALITY CONTROL. ​

I understand why you'd post this given how much criticism you've received in the past 2 weeks alone since I've been frequenting this thread again, a lot of it unwarranted, but I just hope it won't send people away who might've otherwise used it... Even if someone has a wider definition of femdom than you do, there would still be a lot of quality games they could find and love in this list. I won't tell you to rephrase this as it's your thread, but maybe it would be better to say "...consider it too narrow, this list and thread is not designed for you and will not bend or expand its definitions to accomodate for your suggestions. As long as you understand this, there will be valuable content to find here for any genuine femdom-lover. Keeping things clearly defined..." and then you go on with the rest of the original message. I feel this would feel more welcoming and less aggressive towards new visitors, but it's just my suggestion. Feel free to just ignore it or make better changes to it yourself!

 

[Aseratrix]

I understand why you'd post this given how much criticism you've received in the past 2 weeks alone since I've been frequenting this thread again, a lot of it unwarranted, but I just hope it won't send people away who might've otherwise used it... Even if someone has a wider definition of femdom than you do, there would still be a lot of quality games they could find and love in this list. I won't tell you to rephrase this as it's your thread, but maybe it would be better to say "...consider it too narrow, this list and thread is not designed for you and will not bend or expand its definitions to accomodate for your suggestions. As long as you understand this, there will be valuable content to find here for any genuine femdom-lover. Keeping things clearly defined..." and then you go on with the rest of the original message. I feel this would feel more welcoming and less aggressive towards new visitors, but it's just my suggestion. Feel free to just ignore it or make better changes to it yourself!

Yeah, I will consider some alterations in wording, but I am especially salty about the "gate-keeping" thing. I think its used illegitimately most of the time. Its like saying to a lets say animal biologist that the descriptions which define a duck as a separate species is gate-keeping if its not wide enough to include all birds into the definition of a duck.

I'll definitely add this, because its true: "As long as you understand this, there will be valuable content to find here for any genuine femdom-lover..." I will return to this later, probably tomorrow.