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Many users have this issue, me included.
Recommending Femdom Finder
- Thread starter Aseratrix
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You're not banned. Its happening to everyone I think. Server overloaded most likely.
- Dec 16, 2019
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I just complained about the same yesterday, a couple of lines above your post. And its still not resolved. I can't even attempt to update the list until its not solved.
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Nope - exactly the same thing is happening to me even when I'm trying to quote mesages, but also when I check notifications or anything else... It's definitely a problem from f95's end, not ours!
You consider alot of things "femdom" in this list. But you know what, the vast majority of this is essentially BDSM with female as the dom.
I don't like the west's approach to consider BDSM femdom. It isn't the definition of femdom.
Japan's definition of femdom is reverse rape, which is at least closer to what femdom really is.
Raw femdom is sex with the female taking the lead. It does not have to include all the wierd BDSM stuff, and i'd actually prefer it didn't.
My definition of femdom: Girl takes the lead and fucks the guy senseless, the guy is moaning and surrendering to her. His hands clutching the sheets, toes curling as his body can't handle the pleasure.
Girl is smiling and enjoying herself, sometimes talking dirty in diffrent ways. Could be soft, like "Are you okay? am I hurting you? I'm sorry, I don't want to stop!" or mean, "Yeah take it you slut! How does that feel? Can't handle my pussy huh? Get fucked!" (those are examples).
An example you can view would be the hentai called "Yes my darling" by Homunculus. You may not consider this femdom, but I do. The girl there may act like she is 'serving her master', but she is asserting her dominance. Her manner is the soft one.
I don't like the west's approach to consider BDSM femdom. It isn't the definition of femdom.
Japan's definition of femdom is reverse rape, which is at least closer to what femdom really is.
Raw femdom is sex with the female taking the lead. It does not have to include all the wierd BDSM stuff, and i'd actually prefer it didn't.
My definition of femdom: Girl takes the lead and fucks the guy senseless, the guy is moaning and surrendering to her. His hands clutching the sheets, toes curling as his body can't handle the pleasure.
Girl is smiling and enjoying herself, sometimes talking dirty in diffrent ways. Could be soft, like "Are you okay? am I hurting you? I'm sorry, I don't want to stop!" or mean, "Yeah take it you slut! How does that feel? Can't handle my pussy huh? Get fucked!" (those are examples).
An example you can view would be the hentai called "Yes my darling" by Homunculus. You may not consider this femdom, but I do. The girl there may act like she is 'serving her master', but she is asserting her dominance. Her manner is the soft one.
That's just your opinion. I, for one, agree with his list. Don't like it? Make your own thread for your preferred type of femdom games. Wanna discuss about the definition? There's a separate thread for discussions. This thread is for making a list of femdom games according to the definition given in opening post. There may be flaws but I wouldn't like the list to have those additions either. We have had enough of these discussions before. So, yeah if you actually want a list of those. Make your own thread and make your own list instead of going off-topic here.
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I completely disagree. But there is another thread where you can voice your disagreement, its in the OP. The thread here is not for debates, we already had a mod come around and put things into place, so please, enjoy the list, contribute entries, discuss games, evaluate games, offer femdom art, etc. But no debates!
My definition of femdom is exactly that which also features on wikipedia:
"Female dominance (also known as female domination or femdom) is a BDSM activity in which the dominant partner is female."
It is in the service of this understanding of femdom I made this list. It is this what I always considered femdom and what I dearly love and I know many others share my love for. The list is for people who are seeking genuine, real femdom, with real dominant females doing actual domination and humiliation on their subs, and who may have a hard time finding games focused on this genre.
It is a weird list for weird people.
Ps: reverse rape is a fetish within femdom some have, and many of the games in the list feature this fetish as well.
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It will be in the list. Right now in addition of me having less time than usual, the site is experiencing some major technical bugs which makes even commenting a chore. When the issues of the site are resolved, and I get some time, I will update the list with many entries. The list is a work in progress, so please treat it as such. Thanks!
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Don't bother. Aseratrix has made it very clear that only his definition flies for this list. Either accept that or eventually get labeled a troll and set on ignore.
Long time lurker here. I can't believe how entitled some people are.
A guy spends his spare time giving a free list of Femdom related titles. Whether youi agree or disagree with his definition of Femdom it obviously cant be a communal list or we would end up with every game thathad the "Female Domination" tag in it and the list would be pointless.
This list is really helpful to people who, like me, thinks of Femdom like the Op does. For those of you who don't, enjoy the list for what it is and use the "Fe
A guy spends his spare time giving a free list of Femdom related titles. Whether youi agree or disagree with his definition of Femdom it obviously cant be a communal list or we would end up with every game thathad the "Female Domination" tag in it and the list would be pointless.
This list is really helpful to people who, like me, thinks of Femdom like the Op does. For those of you who don't, enjoy the list for what it is and use the "Fe
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yeah I think his definition of femdom is in line with most people on this site anyway (except the futa part which I'm also not a fan of)
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Thank you for this thread. I cannot believe I first discovered it today.
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Thanks for your kind words. I am not marketing it widely, but whenever I comment somewhere people find the link, others also have it in their sig. Anyways, welcome and feel free to contribute with games, discuss games and even share femdom art as you see fit. If you want to debate something, use the other link given in the OP.
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Thank you and I will mention some I do not see, Forgive me they were already there and I somehow missed them:
https://f95zone.to/threads/in-the-hamlet-of-loli-bigtits-v1-03a-aeba-no-mori.17260/
Was one of the first well translated femdom rpgmaker games I enjoyed. It got pretty interesting semen, relationship and level drain mechanics which will ultimately lead to MCs death by paizuri from the woman they choose or by all of them if you gotta catch´em all.
It got a femdom fetish per girl, so you can avoid the ones you don´t like. As you increase her relationship she gets more extreme in her fetish. Examply like the chastity girl wants for 1 day chastity first, then more and more days until and ultimately permanent chastity end. As far as I remember it had findom, chastity+orgasm denial, drug rape(drugged, tied up and drained) and there must be at least 3 more I do not remember as I remember 6 girls in all. The loli here did not seem like loli to me, with their huge breasts, Unless I do not understand exactly what loli is. For loli lovers I apologize my ignorance. It might be a turnoff for some that it is mainly paizure focused sex within the different femdom fetishes. But for at guy like me who love rpgmaker games and mechanics that go beyond the standard to understand and abuse this was amazing. It also rewards exploration and has secret areas and crafting
Nor do I see any of the Studio62 games. Again heavy on the titjob, humiliation and involving level drain and succbuses and men loosing their humanity and turning into animals when they have been drained to much. The original of Lust Grimm was my favorite and a bit more unforgiving than the later games in terms of resources and mechanics. The story got touching at times for me and I had to shed a tear at one point. It had a casino too, so if one do not mind early save scumming casino grind there you can become pretty powerful early on(The masochist in me demands I play rpgmaker within the confines of how the creator made them without cheating and enduring any grind for me always increase the payoff. But do I love finding weaknesses to the mechanics within the game
). Also has secret areas and rewarding you for being explorative. I love these kinds of opportunities in games, I understand that for many grind and exploration is not fun.https://f95zone.to/threads/lust-grimm-v1-17-62studio.24380/
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I will look into these games. Some games may not fit the focus of the list tho. Based on your descriptions these can go either way. I'll try them and then 1. they get into the list 2. they will get a short game analysis posted here in the tread and the reasoning as per why they won't be included, an example of the latter is this:Thank you and I will mention some I do not see, Forgive me they were already there and I somehow missed them:
https://f95zone.to/threads/in-the-hamlet-of-loli-bigtits-v1-03a-aeba-no-mori.17260/
Was one of the first well translated femdom rpgmaker games I enjoyed. It got pretty interesting semen, relationship and level drain mechanics which will ultimately lead to MCs death by paizuri from the woman they choose or by all of them if you gotta catch´em all.
It got a femdom fetish per girl, so you can avoid the ones you don´t like. As you increase her relationship she gets more extreme in her fetish. Examply like the chastity girl wants for 1 day chastity first, then more and more days until and ultimately permanent chastity end. As far as I remember it had findom, chastity+orgasm denial, drug rape(drugged, tied up and drained) and there must be at least 3 more I do not remember as I remember 6 girls in all. The loli here did not seem like loli to me, with their huge breasts, Unless I do not understand exactly what loli is. For loli lovers I apologize my ignorance. It might be a turnoff for some that it is mainly paizure focused sex within the different femdom fetishes. But for at guy like me who love rpgmaker games and mechanics that go beyond the standard to understand and abuse this was amazing. It also rewards exploration and has secret areas and crafting
Nor do I see any of the Studio62 games. Again heavy on the titjob, humiliation and involving level drain and succbuses and men loosing their humanity and turning into animals when they have been drained to much. The original of Lust Grimm was my favorite and a bit more unforgiving than the later games in terms of resources and mechanics. The story got touching at times for me and I had to shed a tear at one point. It had a casino too, so if one do not mind early save scumming casino grind there you can become pretty powerful early on(The masochist in me demands I play rpgmaker within the confines of how the creator made them without cheating and enduring any grind for me always increase the payoff. But do I love finding weaknesses to the mechanics within the game
https://f95zone.to/threads/lust-grimm-v1-17-62studio.24380/
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I am no expert at defining femdom as it was never important for me to define and have a clear idea what others meant. But it makes sense in a thread like this, and I might learn something. I just like sexually dominant women and gets turned off by sexually submissive women. But I hope you will tolerate me suggesting games that might fail in the terms defined in the two spilers in the starting post. In time I will probably learn.
As I read the femdom and not femdom spoilers in the starting post the games do not move into the "Not Femdom" category. Loli bigtits the women are sadistic in the sex and dominant. But some catch you through deception and playing sweet rather than giving direct orders, before they start dominating you sexually. I do not remember any sexual situation in this game where the woman is not in complete control. Unless you rule a situation where you cum to early and she then gets angry as that. But I might remember wrong.
In Lust Grimm the dominance mostly happen in the fights, but also, I feel, in some of the haughty and superior demeanor of some of the main character succubus. It does have a little romance, but sexually the woman seem dominant in their desire and behavior. The levelling up and stuff is defeating them in sexbattle. So if them being able to loose such a battle and cum before you would ruin the femdom, there is that. But they never submit, they just disappear and you get xp and loot. This game does have one hidden vanilla semi-romantic sex scene, where I remember the woman still being assertive and deciding what happens, so not sure if it rules out the games.
Both games have kind of a silent protagonist with none to little personality, probably so you can insert yourself in their place.
Of course it has been so long time since I played them, so what I thought was very dominant back then might have changed. I have mostly been hooked on cbt, chastity/Orgasm denial for a few years now and sometimes the psychological dominance in NTR. Though I hate in ntr when the woman then turns submissive to the Netori guy, it always ruins it for me and makes me walk away.