Aseratrix
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- Dec 16, 2019
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"Risk aware consensual kink" or "Rack" is what I prefer, and CNC too. In stories and games I hate "SSC", especially "sane", fuck that with a cactus! I don't want someone else's notion of normalcy define and rule what I like. SSC makes it a plush teddy-bear, "safe" for vanilla consumption. Consent is enough in real life [including CNC], the rest of the acronym is bullshit as far as I'm concerned. Adults with the ability to assume responsibility for their freedom and actions need not be patronized with dubious standards and "health concerns". <- This is the breeding-ground of new discrimination as well, in order to make S&M and D/s more palatable and acceptable for the masses, it declaws, decaffeinates and overall domesticates it all, and then turns around and now with the empowerment of the majority tries to kink-shame and pathologize those of us whose fetishes are deemed not "sane" and "healthy", and the cycle of in-casts and out-casts begins anew.One of the acronyms you need to know if you think of engaging in BDSM in real life. Safe, Sane, Consensual.
As for how it relates to game play, the way I see it, if it isn't safe and sane, the domme isn't really in control (maybe no one is, but I'm less about the sub's lack of control and more about the domme's control). And if either side isn't consenting, then it's not a relationship with an aspect of power exchange, but rather an event of rape*, which, again, isn't something that I fantasize about.
*CNC, or consensual non-consent, where the submissive agrees (consents) in advance to situations where their consent is not requested, enabling rape or kidnapping scenarios, is a different issue. I'm referring there to actual lack of consent.
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