However, knocking up a girl is still not a "working way" for a dushbag boyfriend to keep her, however bad her economical situation is.
Yeah, about that. . . Minimal salary in my country is around 125 a month. Avarage would be around 330 and "normal" around 500. Credit percent around 20-30 or even 35% a year. It's perfectly normal if in a two room flat live 3 family's, parents and two grown up kids with their wife's. Usually it's not that harsh, I'm just saying that a situation when 6 grown ups with small kids living in a one room flat is not a fairy tail, it really happens.
It's perfectly normal if two family lives in a flat, the "kids" are waiting for parents to die to have that flat.
With a salary of 500+500 (boy and girl)it is impossible to buy a flat, you just can not save it. You can rent it, but then there would be not enought money to save.
Please tell me, how it's even possible to add a child in this kind of equation? If the girl is a single mother, it's a disaster. But guess what, abortion is not an option, cause or society is kinda whicked, you just can not desire to make an abortion by yourself, you'll need to go through comittee that would decide that it's appropriate for you to have an abortion, And the wickest thing, in some regions priest's are included in that committee. Great news, huh?
Of course in city centers it would be easier, and when I'm telling "easier" it's just easier, cause you can not make abortion in private clinics, it's against the law, you would always go through such committee, so what about countrysides or small cities? The girl would go through hell. And guess what, even if she would do abortion successfully, her relatives would not understand it, only a small part of post USSR people are.ready for such idea.
V.A. Laurie were telling us about gay people problems, I should say that it's complete shit compared to what girl from poor family would go through with such "reality". And there are always rape victims, try to imaging what they will be going through. The idea of a priest telling her that all life is precious.
Shit happens and it happens a lot.
Of course, I should say that "pregnancy" way is mostly done by girls to the boyfriend they want to keep. And it works like a charm. Always.
The idea behind my post was that in "pregnancy way" we can keep Melody even if there is "harem route".
And please tell me honestly, if i wrote that it's ok for a girl to become pregnant to keep the boyfriend, would you react the same way? Would you comment that "this would never stop a boyfriend to dump his douchebag girlfriend"? Would that message be important enough for you to disagree with me in a separate comment?
Sure thing Melody is strong willed, independent personallity, she live in a modern country with a family with good income. She can raise a child by herself, her mother would help her. But do you really think that there would be no drama behind the scene? We heared about her mother a lot, but guess what, her father wasn't mentioned even once. So imaging, single mother raised her daughter, opened her own business and then... Her daughter tells her that she's pregnant... and there is no father.
Life is harsh and complicated thing. People are different, fates are different, choices are different. There will always be mistakes and bad decisions. And sometimes you just need to survive, even if it means to make the worst desicion in your life, to live a life with a "douchebag". And guess what, single mothers usually are more vulnerable to that kind of situations, cause there should care not only for themselves, but for their child as well.