I am not here to pick a fight. If you think it is not gay then it is not gay for you and that is alright. But would be nice if the Futanari tag
would be divided into 3: Futa on male, Futa on female and Futa on Futa. and shemales(trans people) be separated from Futanari(true hermaphrodite) so each person can decide what they want or not.
Ps: By the way fun fact: true hermaphrodite doesn't occur in humans. so would be fictional sex gender different from any other.
Neither am I, just saying that your issue is a bit more of a personal one than a universally applicable one. It is true that the tags here could use more nuances, but then again it also might still lead to the issue of people using them in a rather loose sense and whatnot. But it
would make some things easier to differentiate without a doubt.
But calling the demons
Shemales or
trans people would also not be fitting since they aren't humans to begin with, might be able to just freely shapeshift their genitalia (we don't know yet) and just generally speaking if they never were men to begin with neither of those terms makes any sense. So I stand by my saying that the most convenient and efficient way to deal with your issue would be to make use of the fact the sex scenes with the demons are by no means a necessity & that's all there is to it, in my eyes.
I would understand your complaint more if the stuff was unavoidable & the Devs somewhere advertised this game as being about hermaphrodites only.
Since it is as you say, though, and Hermaphrodites don't exist in humans as far as it has been researched, and Futa is used for a lot of variations of "female body shape + dong" it (Futa) has actually become a rather loose term.