I don't mind being called short, I'm not easily offended but the fact that I have to explain again and again that I'm of age sometime can be exhausting
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Completely understood. I'm an Asian that grew up in America that moved back here to my home country. The question I always get is "How tall are you?" and "Do you play basketball?" (to be fair, I got that question in the US too. I just get it more here)
But you can't 100% genderbend a person in real life (can you?
), so how does a person lose their dong? ED? then chose to have sex with men... does that make them gay? then get their dong back in full force... If we stop at that probably that means they are cause men arouses them?
Then if we go back to genderbended MC here, they actually have a working vagina right? then there are so many variable to consider than just "is it gay?" question. I'm a straight man so I don't know what having sex with men like and also don't have female genitalia, so let's say I was a woman then somehow turn into a man.. My mind and preference I would think is still of a woman, so do I still have sex with men only? ... there, I'm getting myself confused again
I think the closest you'll get to someone being in this situation in the real world are those that are considering going through or being trans. But yeah, I think the world would be a less chaotic place if being 100% genderbend'ed was a real thing. But I personally feel (maybe influenced by my native culture, maybe not.) that the western approach to male and female gender roles is short-sighted at best and self-destructive at worst. Like consider this situation.
Let's say you're at a bar and a really beautiful and effeminate guy comes up to you and goes "Hey, so I really just need blow someone and you're the hottest guy here. 3 minutes, I won't tell anyone, you can pretend I'm a woman." And you accept because you're buzzed and horny. You go through it, he gets you off and he keeps his word. No one ever knows. Does that make you gay? Is that any different than masturbating or using an onahole? All this is to say that, I feel the idea and western reflex of liking men and only men or liking women and only women is oversimplifying and/or mis-defining the reality. Which is that, ultimately, the body doesn't really recognize gender when it comes to physical sensations/pleasure. But our minds have ideas and images that complete and/or augment the situation for us. And with mental reflex or ideal, it can be that it's not easily changed or reversed. Like when I first moved to the US, I had to get use to the idea that you can have a meal without rice, bread or noodles. I literally hesitated at a steak place going "Wait... I eat the meat... by itself?"
And all this culminates to, I'm pretty sure that if you were to suddenly become a biological woman, mentally, you would still find having sex with men repulsive as you do now. But having sex with men with female genitalia (assuming you had a REALLY good time), you might re-evaluate your repulsion towards men or see sex with men in a new light. Or you might partition the idea in your mind. You like being with women but having sex as a female is a just a different type of sex that you enjoy occasionally. But an immediate 180 flip of "OMG, this is so good! I like men now!" is extremely unlikely. But with that said, I'm a firm believer that pleasure is pleasure. Short of the act harming someone, it ultimately doesn't matter if that pleasure comes from the same gender or a different gender. And that method of pleasure has no moral standing. It doesn't make you less than if you enjoy pegging any more than if you enjoy pile driving a woman. Heck, it could be some days you enjoy one and some days you enjoy the other. My approach is, our body has given us 5 senses (to over simplify it) and we have pleasures for each. You wouldn't limit yourself to just having sweet foods any more than you would limit yourself to just 1 band's songs. Sometimes your tastes can be expanded to enjoy new things. Sex is another one of the pleasures. And if it's expanded, why is that any worst than finding a new food or music to enjoy?