I don't think anyone has said you aren't allowed to complain, it just seems like a waste of time to me to complain about things that are like, essential parts of the experience. I also agree that it would be awesome to see this exact game but with different fetishes, but the creator makes what they want to make and I guess I just don't see the point in complaining about it. And I think trying to redefine donations into purchases is pointless too because it's pretty clear that isn't how patreon works. Is it crummy to subscribe to the patreon and not get any updates and stuff (Even though from kitty's post it seems to me like you do get what's promised)? Sure, but in that case I just wouldn't support them. If it's not worth it, it's not worth it.
All of this I can agree with. Where I was seeing you as coming in with bad assumptions is that Kitty is entitled to their opinion about the game and its production as much as any of us, but you should take any of our opinions with a grain of salt: the current "test build" is posted a couple pages back (feel free to check it out yourself), and when it originally released Kitty's posts gave a pretty clear impression of "omg yall are missing out", yet we come to find that after
6 months of waiting, this test build only includes
one character with two animations. That's it. It is a test build, yes, but if Mordicai and the Rat are so unpolished/far from finished Doggie didn't feel safe showing them in the test (or is outright withholding them out of fear of us 'dastardly pirates" yoinking it), what the hell have they been doing for half a year?
To summarize why you may have really stepped in a deep pile of shit the rest of us are mired in: people originally started showing dissatisfaction over what had up till recently been 5 months of radio silence (even for VIPs who had to pay and verify their damn phone just to get into a Discord channel), Kitty and a few others went absolutely ballistic in response to that dissatisfaction (which has at multiple points became a topic of contention itself over whether we're even ALLOWED to be dissatisfied since we donated) and we have since been slowly walking through unrelated, completely silly semantic arguments over "what counts as donating vs. paying?", "Doggie never made any promises, thus owes us nothing", "They gave a 'potential' date, not an actual one, so they're not beholden to a deadline", so on and so forth.