Thanks for response
All that and more!
Combat is both turn and choice based, since you will have to decide, turn by turn, which kind of attack you can make (heavy attack or normal attack) + the different options that will come out in context.
You don't have to play as female MC if you don't want to, the overall story will be the same and depending on your race/gender, you will simply experience some differences in the way other characters react to you. Think of the MC as a flavor you add to the main dish.
Femdom is avoidable if that's not your cup of tea. All Content Is Optional and there are enough gates to prevent you from running into something you do not wish to see.