Hmm, I'm puzzled.
Since you are into femdom, then you know that it's, with "maledom" and "BDSM", one of the most generic tag, because it apply to one of the more vast sexual practice. By example, bondage is included into the "BDSM" tag, but will feel out of topic and way to soft for someone that is into something more extreme. In the same way that pegging is part of the "femdom" tag, but would be feel way to extreme for a big part of the male subs ; and no, it have nothing to do with feminization.
That it's not your level of femdom, ok, it's totally legit. But saying that it's not at all femdom, it's as wrong as saying that a dish is totally messed because you like it more spicy ; it wouldn't be an opinion based on what the dish is, or what the talent of the cook is, but only on your personal taste. Exactly as is your comment on the femdom part on the game is.
And saying that your range is similar to most guys into femdom... Well, don't you think that it's relatively pretentious to say this regarding a practice that goes from lost control to near tortures, passing by water play, scatology, humiliation, pegging, pet play, and so many other things ? When it come for BDSM, maledom and femdom, absolutely no one can pretend to be "like most of the others". At least unless he don't understand his own kink and, what is worse, never been attentive to his mistress when she tried to understand him, in order to know what he's effectively into. This in the exact same way that you didn't payed attention to Chris when she made the offer. It's clearly stated that it will be about control, and only about control.
But well, since you think that you represent most of guys into femdom, then why have you tested the dome part. I mean, there's no "humiliation" tag, nor a "BDSM" one. This clearly show that it will not be your kind of femdom, but something that will be way to soft for your taste.