I hear you on that, but irl I tend to err to the side of caution in regards to consent. I've probably missed out on some opportunities along the way, but I've also not ended up in the position of having non-consensual sex, or having a partner barf all over me or pass out during the act either. The issue of whether she is too drunk to know better comes in here, and I don't yet know her well enough to be able to ascertain that. But of course, I
had to go that route as well as the caring route, just to appease my completionist OCD.