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It's true that they did become more of a real family later, but that doesn't excuse her actions early on. And that's my problem I suppose. We all do it, but Yennefer fans to me always seem to cherry pick the good moments and completey ignore the bad ones. I read the short stores and first 2 novels more than the other ones because I keep starting them and than not finishing the series (as I metioned before, I'm not actually a fan of the books. I only read them because of the games. There are fantasy books out there that I like much, much more). So 'early' yennefer stands out more to me than how she becomes in the later novels. That's on me, but I can't really help it. It also doesn't help if you read the books through the 'I dislike Yennefer so, so much' glasses I suppose.Ok, i would have to reread the books for the 5th or so time, to check the last wish exactly, but i would never go as far as to say Geralt hated Yen. I can remember a conversation between him and another dude in that story, that would imply his feelings for her.
As for Triss in Kaer Morhen, would asking "what happened to you after Rivia?" would be too much? As I said, i really like Triss to so getting past this is hard for me.
What I don't understand is why you don't want to acknowledge the growth in Geralt's and Yen relationship, nor her love for Ciri as real feelings. Saying her actions were caused by an "obsession" is really unfair. I think that pretty much any decent parent, knowing that their child is in danger would do anything to protect them. She doesn't do those things because she wants to, she does them because she has to, for Ciri's safety. Also if she just wanted a child she could have easily adopted one, or bought one or whatever. And yet she gave up everything she had, for Ciri. While Yen might've loved/hated Geralt in the short stories, i think that since Ciri showed up, she started thinking of themselves as a family and developed real love towards both Geralt and Ciri.
As for Ciri, sure Yennefer did love her. Love her enough to dump her in some magic school she didn't want to go to and what not. It was a bit unfair to say the only reason she loves Ciri is because of her child wish (which wasn't actually what I said, but okay), but that is where it started. They don't even interact all that much in the books. Especially not in the early books. So Yennefer to me is more the adopted mother you've only known for like a year kind of mother, not a mother you've grown up with since birth. Ciri disappeared to through the tower shortly after Yennefer and she met and she was gone for a long time after that after all. Ciri still loves Yen as a mother too of course, but I feel like Yennefer fans use her as some short of shield with the 'oh, but think of the children!' kind of defense of Yennefer. I still haven't heard any actual excuses for Yen's behavior from any Yennefer fans. Saying 'oh, but she loved Ciri and they became a family' doesn't really answer any of the complaints I have about her.
And just because she and Geralt kind started having a decent romance at the end doesn't convince me enough to see her as a good person or an actual valid option for Geralt once the wish is removed. That's all up to player choice though, and thank god to CD Projekt Red for giving us that choice. Although I would have liked it a little bit better if they hadn't auto-broken up Triss and Geralt for no real reason between Assassin of Kings and Wild Hunt.
I think the excellent added scene in which Geralt explains to Ciri why he choose Triss (if you romanced her in Wild Hunt) explains my feels towards Triss and Yen best: "With Yen if was fight after fight, lots of arguments, drama... Not saying it was bad, but... Got to be exhausting. With Triss, it's not. I finally feel harmony. A calm. Feel like things are the way they're supposed to be."
That just fits me and my Geralt better. Give me a calm, sweet girlfriend over one how constantly throws pots at your head when she's angry any day.