If Flee option isnt working cause too fatigued, try to lose to the guards or talk to them. They will get you to your bed, at a "price". You can avoid all fights by moving skillfully around everyone, dont let them touch you. If you exit the bar thru the top exit you then need to get to the right exit of the hall, then theres a stairs room, exit to the far right unto you the yard. Then go down and finally right to your room.
Eventually you will get fked so much you will learn handjobs and blowjobs passively so you can better satisfy them.