Says someone who clearly knows nothing about business. I'm sure those devs, as you point out are doing this as a hobby, have hundreds of thousands of dollars laying around to promote their hobby. And I'm sure every other dev out there trying to make this a real thing wants to cross promote with a dev who isn't in a place to even consider that possibility and will likely quit in a few months.
No, f95 isn't the end all, be all for promotion for devs. It's a fickle bitch. People expect results, even if the only reason you made the progress you did was bc a relative passed and you needed to bury yourself into something. Thing is, if a dev WANTS to try to make it in this specific branch of the industry, this is their first and best stop. You're not going anywhere locking your unknown game in a walled garden, even if the gate allows free entry to everyone. Word of mouth has been and always will be the single best form of promotion. And sites like this is where that begins to take place, even in the AAA space. If you doubt that, look how furious every branch of the entertainment industry is at sites like Reddit, Metacritic, RT and Youtube and ponder why they're so determined to shut down ALL negativity around their products.
The reason most of these devs fail isn't a lack of income or poor quality. I've seen games on here and elsewhere that functioned yet are complete garbage in every other way, and have rabid fans. They aren't fun, they aren't entertaining, they look like melted wax, but ya know what? The dev delivers content on the regular. They fail bc they are even more entitled than the people you are here accusing of stealing. After all, most of them are using free tools, free assets, on hardware/software they had anyway and combining them to make something they know may have no value while putting a price tag on it and demanding money. This is what ALWAYS takes place when a non-essential good is introduced into the market. That product has no value until the consumer decides it does. And for the consumer to decide it has value, you damn well better get it in their hands and keep it in their minds.
It's really simple. Sites like this die, so do these devs games. Established games like BAD will continue to be successful... for a while. Even they will wither and die without open discussion and a push to introduce the game to new consumers. It would be very different if mainstream alternatives weren't utterly biased against anything remotely adult oriented. Yet then I'm sure you'd be arguing that people streaming these games is no better than what this site does bc you don't understand what you're trying to discuss.