Hey guys so I played the game two times and I don't think it's possible to lower her facade below 40 before the apartment, I got it just a little over 40 and I favored losing facade instead of gaining points with her, always looking on the code to confirm the choices. My workaround was a "change view" on the stripclub that lowers her facade by 5 everytime (bug?). I think it was the one where she's getting out of her top. You can also use the last one of the stripclub to control her facade because there is a choice that increase the facade after losing some.