Sup, your local trans lesbian here, who comes whenever you need more insight into the world of the people you jerk off to.
Let's start with a short story.
Once, my ex and first-ever lesbian girlfriend told me, "A penis, a strap-on, I don't give a shit as long as it's a beautiful girl that's inside me."
I used to think I could only ever be with bisexuals, at least until I'd get bottom surgery. After all, even if I looked like, acted, and felt like a girl, no lesbian would ever want to get anywhere near a penis.
My ex was the first to dispel that notion. We met on Tinder. On her profile was written in all caps, "LESBIAN. L-E-S-B-I-A-N. NO MEN. NO THREESOMES WITH YOUR BOYFRIEND. NO, HE CAN'T WATCH EITHER." She was beautiful, and with her not being bisexual, I didn't think I had much of a chance. I swiped left on her once or twice before I finally said fuck it. I made it very clear that I was a pre-op girl in my profile, so when we matched, I was pretty taken aback and didn't really know what to write. Luckily, she massaged me first. We went out on a few dates, and the subject of me being trans never really came up; she treated me just like another girl. The first time it was anything more than a footnote was during our first time. She asked if I would be okay with her touching my gock while she fucked me. I misconstrued the question, but she reassured me and explained that she has trans friends and she knows some of us have different boundaries in bed. Fast forward a few weeks, and she suggested we try penis-in-vagina sex or "normal" sex for all the cishets in the crowd. I then asked her if she is sure it's okay, which was when she dropped that quote.
Haven't really had a relationship where my penis was a problem. My current girlfriend actually really likes that I have a penis because she knows that when I'm inside of her, I feel good too. Obviously, people have genital preferences, some lesbians really don't get anywhere near dicks, I don't deny that. I'm just saying that it's a lot less common than you think.
So, now that I gave you some context, let's go point by point.
Obviously, flesh and silicon feel different. But I can tell you from experience that it's really more about the person fucking you than what their dick is made out of. Try it yourself if you don't believe me. Also, "procure pleasure," really?
Mine doesn't. Just thought I'd add that. And also that there are toys that can do it, too.
Nope, they quite literally said the exact opposite.
You do not get to dictate what's fucking lesbian. Okay, sweetie? I don't give a measly shit what turns your sorry ass dick on. Your criteria for this list is your own business, but that doesn't go outside of that, got it? Lesbian is more than just a porn category.
You do realise I'm talking about porn, yes?
Not real life. And those are two, very different things. I hope you know the usual reality vs fiction speech.
Being a man myself, I don't really care about who or what lesbians are in real life. That's up to lesbians, and I'm pretty sure there is vast diversity in opinions without adding mine (and I'm not adding mine, because once again, I'm not a lesbian, I'm not a woman, my "opinion" doesn't matter)
I'm not dictating anything. You live your life the way you want, "sweetie".
"Mine doesn't. Just thought I'd add that. And also that there are toys that can do it, too."
Good for you? I guess? Honestly, I didn't need to know that, that's quite the personal information there.
Then, "primary" function is a keyword here. it means it can be used for something else too. And also fail in that primary function.
"Also, "procure pleasure," really?"
Yes, that's literally why they exist, they are called sex-toy, so unless they are useful for reproduction, the only thing left is pleasure. And I'll let you know men use them too, they are not exclusive to women, and they are not exclusive to lesbians either. You can throw intimacy in it too if you want, but sex isn't always intimate, and in the case of solo use, I fail to see where the intimacy lies.
I know you are not a porn character but a real-life person.
I know real-life women are not porn characters.
I know trans people aren't porn characters.
I know real-life people have wants, needs, motivations, and things they like that are completely different from porn. it might be hard for you to consider, my real-life needs and my sexual life are completely different that what you can see in porn too.
I also know porn is NOT real life.
But we are not talking about real life here, we are talking about fiction.
Someone said penis=sex toy.
I answered that saying "no" in a very lengthy way.
Do you consider your penis as a sex toy, sweetie?
