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Rafster

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The gay tag is used correctly in all games
I doubt it. Some games with futa/trans characters get automatically the gay tag, even when the tag rule here states they are not included. And then there is the nature of the tag, just by holding hands with a femboy once you get the gay tag, making it useless for those of us who look for Gay MC games, or at least with a complete gay storyline/arc. Just like what happens with the lesbian tag.

So, in short, no.
 

Beggarman

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As someone who's trying to create a highly focused Yuri game while being a man, I have to admit that having to write a female MC is kind of a challenge.

One easy trick I found was to pick an existing character which has a very tomboy-ish personality.

I think you also need to find the right balance between :

- "it's a porn game."

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- "Your MC must not only be a sex driven character."
Not to sound rude, but I think the part that trips people up the most is getting hung up on trying to "think like a woman" when really you should just "think like a person" or "think like yourself," at least for a first pass, and then take a look with an eye to gender after, if it's really necessary. The specifics depend on the type of story you're writing and how in-depth you're going, but unless you are an absolute hyper-macho horndog IRL, you're probably going to get something a bit more natural-sounding if you write them like how you'd behave. I write pretty much all the characters I use with a "what would I do in this scenario" check but with their personality quirks and background loaded, and I don't find myself going "hmm, I wouldn't do that because I am a woman" so much as "I would either deny this accusation, or stammer out an answer, because I am shy and embarassed," or "I would not do this thing because it's a little dangerous and I am not that confident."
 

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I doubt it. Some games with futa/trans characters get automatically the gay tag, even when the tag rule here states they are not included. And then there is the nature of the tag, just by holding hands with a femboy once you get the gay tag, making it useless for those of us who look for Gay MC games, or at least with a complete gay storyline/arc. Just like what happens with the lesbian tag.

So, in short, no.
there's this thing with both [lesbian] and [gay] tag...
a girl x girl scene doesn't necessarily means -any- of the two is a lesbian. yet, in a game it would likely get the [lesbian] tag even if it'd be just some two random girls making out, at some party.
or a threesome with 2 guys and a girl, where the two guys interact, doesn't necessarily means they are gay, yet, in a game the [gay] tag would be slapped on, no question. 'omg they kissed, must be gay, where's the tag?!'

maybe game devs never swing. whatdoiknow. :cautious:
 
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there's this thing with both [lesbian] and [gay] tag...
a girl x girl scene doesn't necessarily means -any- of the two is a lesbian. yet, in a game it would likely get the [lesbian] tag even if it'd be just some two random girls making out, at some party.
or a threesome with 2 guys and a girl, where the two guys interact, doesn't necessarily means they are gay, yet, in a game the [gay] tag would be slapped on, no question. 'omg they kissed, must be gay, where's the tag?!'

maybe game devs never swing. whatdoiknow. :cautious:
I mean technically but at that point we're arguing semantics. The point and crux of the matter is are the two women engaging in exclusively lesbian acts as opposed to bisexual acts like the aforementioned threesome (gender flip aside)? If the answer is yes, that's what we want the lesbian tag to focus on, because that is specifically what us Yuri/Lesbian fans are looking for.

Suddenly adding a dick in it, whether it comes from a guy or even a futanari, is akin to someone making your favorite kind of pizza and then putting a topping you don't like all over it. Let's say it's pineapple for argument's sake; obviously some people like pineapple on their pizza, and that's fine. Rock on. All the power to you.

BUT! when pineapple gets conflated with pizza as a concept then it starts intruding upon what the people who don't like pineapple are looking for, and that's why we ask to simply separate the pineapple corner from the non-pineapple corner so we don't get promised pizza and receive something we gain limited or no pleasure from consuming. Sure, it's not the end of the world or anything, but it would undeniably be a relief to not have to dig through mud to find the gems we were after all along as a simple convenience that many other more conventional fetishes enjoy.
 
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You don't need a new tag, just use the tag that already exists correctly.
I still think there should be additional tags to filter between:
- games were lesbian is the core - like a lesbian protagonist, lesbian LIs, lesbian story and point of view of lesbian main character. tag: "main focus: lesbian" "lesbian protagonist" "lesbian point of view" "primary target audience: lesbians"
- games were the MC isn't lesbian (or is lesbian but heavily written for a cis-male audience) and lesbian content is "just" side content. tag: "lesbian (optional) content"

And the same with the gay tag. "main focus: gay" "gay protagonist" "gay point of view" "primary target audience: gays"

Or maybe something else, but the filter option can't be satisfying for gay or lesbian people and is almost exclusive towards non-straight or non-bisexual people.

Is there any reason why there aren't more tags? What's the reasoning behind it?
 
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Not to sound rude, but I think the part that trips people up the most is getting hung up on trying to "think like a woman" when really you should just "think like a person" or "think like yourself," at least for a first pass, and then take a look with an eye to gender after, if it's really necessary. The specifics depend on the type of story you're writing and how in-depth you're going, but unless you are an absolute hyper-macho horndog IRL, you're probably going to get something a bit more natural-sounding if you write them like how you'd behave. I write pretty much all the characters I use with a "what would I do in this scenario" check but with their personality quirks and background loaded, and I don't find myself going "hmm, I wouldn't do that because I am a woman" so much as "I would either deny this accusation, or stammer out an answer, because I am shy and embarassed," or "I would not do this thing because it's a little dangerous and I am not that confident."
Not a fan of "think like yourself" as there is a big risk to have a lack of personalities between females characters.

But for me "think like a woman" deeply implied you already made the work to have your characters "think like a person" beforehand.
 

Beggarman

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I am assuming a lot from fairly little, so apologies if you have already thought this through a lot. I'm mainly just trying to help because your first post sounds like you're new and struggling a bit. However...

But for me "think like a woman" deeply implied you already made the work to have your characters "think like a person" beforehand.
We could just be quibbling about process at this point, but I feel like if you're doing this properly, then the "being a woman" modifier shouldn't be much of a problem, because it doesn't actually change that much on its own. There are differences between men and women, but not a huge number that are outright exclusive traits; Rather, most differences are better described as trends when building your characters' traits and personality, and so being a woman should probably shape the character, but the issue seems to be with writing certain kinds of characters. You did mention treating one character as a Tomboy before, so... I dunno, maybe it's just that you find those related traits a bit easier to write?

Not a fan of "think like yourself" as there is a big risk to have a lack of personalities between females characters.
It depends. Usually I'll take multiple passes at something (even this reply!) so a first brief run just with what I'd do alone can help map things out. A second or third run with the character loaded in my memory a bit better would usually be done next. But again, if you're struggling with writing a character and the gender seems to be the problem, I'd say to try writing it like that and then try and justify why that would change the scene. Really, it should be the traits that you decided earlier that dictate most potential changes.
 

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I am assuming a lot from fairly little, so apologies if you have already thought this through a lot. I'm mainly just trying to help because your first post sounds like you're new and struggling a bit. However...



We could just be quibbling about process at this point, but I feel like if you're doing this properly, then the "being a woman" modifier shouldn't be much of a problem, because it doesn't actually change that much on its own. There are differences between men and women, but not a huge number that are outright exclusive traits; Rather, most differences are better described as trends when building your characters' traits and personality, and so being a woman should probably shape the character, but the issue seems to be with writing certain kinds of characters. You did mention treating one character as a Tomboy before, so... I dunno, maybe it's just that you find those related traits a bit easier to write?



It depends. Usually I'll take multiple passes at something (even this reply!) so a first brief run just with what I'd do alone can help map things out. A second or third run with the character loaded in my memory a bit better would usually be done next. But again, if you're struggling with writing a character and the gender seems to be the problem, I'd say to try writing it like that and then try and justify why that would change the scene. Really, it should be the traits that you decided earlier that dictate most potential changes.
I think it's mostly related to the fact that I only wrote male MC before, and all of my females characters were supportive characters that felt bland.

Picking a tomboy-ish MC is a way to avoid this more easily since you can start with a much more hot-headed personality.

I think my writing is overall fine, but I will see it clearly when I will be able to post the very first version of my game.

I still think there is some tropes you should avoid when writing a female MC. As an example, having a perverted female MC is a bone killer to me.
 
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F1forhalp

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I mean technically but at that point we're arguing semantics. The point and crux of the matter is are the two women engaging in exclusively lesbian acts as opposed to bisexual acts like the aforementioned threesome (gender flip aside)? If the answer is yes, that's what we want the lesbian tag to focus on, because that is specifically what us Yuri/Lesbian fans are looking for.

Suddenly adding a dick in it, whether it comes from a guy or even a futanari, is akin to someone making your favorite kind of pizza and then putting a topping you don't like all over it. Let's say it's pineapple for argument's sake; obviously some people like pineapple on their pizza, and that's fine. Rock on. All the power to you.

BUT! when pineapple gets conflated with pizza as a concept then it starts intruding upon what the people who don't like pineapple are looking for, and that's why we ask to simply separate the pineapple corner from the non-pineapple corner so we don't get promised pizza and receive something we gain limited or no pleasure from consuming. Sure, it's not the end of the world or anything, but it would undeniably be a relief to not have to dig through mud to find the gems we were after all along as a simple convenience that many other more conventional fetishes enjoy.
exactly what i meant. so, both tags are being applied to games where they aren't really exactly fitting, so to speak, and if they aren't added for the slightest hint of same-sex content, in a just H game (usually suspects are basically male MC), there'll be some wave of QQ about it. imo the tags lack specification, [Les MC] or the same with [Gay MC] would just fit one specific genre of game, let other games have their tags about some bit of content, among more or less other stuff.
 
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Like I said a few pages back, it mystifies me that so many straight guys want to see dicks. To me, there's nothing that turns me off more than a man in the scene even if I'm supposed to be projecting myself onto him. I saw a game the other day with male protagonist, and one of the previews was an animation - an animation! - of him having a wank. No females in the scene. Mind-boggling.

I noticed it because one of the first viewable scenes in my game is the (female) MC masturbating. Which of those two things should straight males want to watch? Well clearly the dick one, apparently!
Maybe Ron Jeremy was right, LOL

But seriously this is one of the things that really makes no sense to me, in a game where I'm playing a male MC, I want to see as little of the male as possible, I want to picture myself as the guy, not see other dudes or dude parts.
 

nyrawin

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Maybe Ron Jeremy was right, LOL

But seriously this is one of the things that really makes no sense to me, in a game where I'm playing a male MC, I want to see as little of the male as possible, I want to picture myself as the guy, not see other dudes or dude parts.
This is an immersion issue.

What is exciting in straight sex ? The feeling of arousal from the characters and the actual sex, which usually involves penetration.

Both rely heavily on showing both sets of genitalia. You have a dick, you know what it feels like so you can relate to most sensations portrayed in the game.

Someone was talking about a male masturbation scene. In itself, I agree that it should present no interest to the average straight consumer, but put it in the context of a game and it might make more sense. If the scene is about fantasizing about a girl, this is something that, once again, most players can relate to and just a part of the teasing before more scenes with the girl happen. Or it could just be a way to show what the MC is working with. This is also an important parameter for immersion, as can be shown by the amount of complaints when the MC is either too small or too large.

But even so, a dick is just a sex organ, it's a bit of flesh. It won't turn you on if you're straight but you should really have no reason to feel turned off. And if you're correctly immersed in the game, you shouldn't feel like you're watching a stranger's dick.
 

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This is an immersion issue.

What is exciting in straight sex ? The feeling of arousal from the characters and the actual sex, which usually involves penetration.

Both rely heavily on showing both sets of genitalia. You have a dick, you know what it feels like so you can relate to most sensations portrayed in the game.

Someone was talking about a male masturbation scene. In itself, I agree that it should present no interest to the average straight consumer, but put it in the context of a game and it might make more sense. If the scene is about fantasizing about a girl, this is something that, once again, most players can relate to and just a part of the teasing before more scenes with the girl happen. Or it could just be a way to show what the MC is working with. This is also an important parameter for immersion, as can be shown by the amount of complaints when the MC is either too small or too large.

But even so, a dick is just a sex organ, it's a bit of flesh. It won't turn you on if you're straight but you should really have no reason to feel turned off. And if you're correctly immersed in the game, you shouldn't feel like you're watching a stranger's dick.
Sorry, immersion only works if I can picture myself as the guy involved, seeing a dick I know is not mine is an immediate destroyer of immersion and gross to look at.

So I gotta completely disagree with you.
 

nyrawin

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Yeah, weird, I know, but dicks are not supposed to be inherently gross. People act like the two reactions to any kind of nudity are arousal or disgust. Neutral is an option. I won't get a boner watching dicks, or guys chests but I won't throw up at the sight.

Which is good, or I would be very limited in my choice of games.

Yuri is fun and all but there's way too little content.

Sorry, immersion only works if I can picture myself as the guy involved, seeing a dick I know is not mine is an immediate destroyer of immersion and gross to look at.

So I gotta completely disagree with you.
Can't fault you on that because I have the same issue with actual porn. Don't know if it's specifically the dicks or just males actors in general but I rarely enjoy it.

Tbh you don't have to actually believe you are the MC, just relate to a point where the MC is an extension of your will in the game (especially if you play games with a female protagonist), thus not a stranger you have to watch have sex.

But this is only a way to enjoy the medium. People play games with female protagonists, corruption and ugly bastards and I can't fathom how so I guess everyone's different.
 
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This is an immersion issue.

What is exciting in straight sex ? The feeling of arousal from the characters and the actual sex, which usually involves penetration.
that is not something that is only for straight sex, taking out the part that "usually involves penetration".
showing "The feeling of arousal from the characters and the actual sex" is one of the main points of any sex scene, whether straight or homo.

Someone was talking about a male masturbation scene. In itself, I agree that it should present no interest to the average straight consumer, but put it in the context of a game and it might make more sense. If the scene is about fantasizing about a girl, this is something that, once again, most players can relate to and just a part of the teasing before more scenes with the girl happen. Or it could just be a way to show what the MC is working with. This is also an important parameter for immersion, as can be shown by the amount of complaints when the MC is either too small or too large.

But even so, a dick is just a sex organ, it's a bit of flesh. It won't turn you on if you're straight but you should really have no reason to feel turned off. And if you're correctly immersed in the game, you shouldn't feel like you're watching a stranger's dick.
all this depends on how the game makes that kind of scenes, for example if the game shows us what the mc is imagining and that is the scene then I see more sense.

but if the game only shows us the mc jerking off, I don't see the sense and appeal of this type of scenes for someone straight I doubt very much that straight man would be interested in watching scenes of men masturbating.

and also for many of us a dick is a complete turn off, especially for us lesbians.
 
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Yeah, weird, I know, but dicks are not supposed to be inherently gross. People act like the two reactions to any kind of nudity are arousal or disgust. Neutral is an option. I won't get a boner watching dicks, or guys chests but I won't throw up at the sight.
Everyone have their own takes on it, but suffice to say you have no clue what you're talking about when you say dicks have no reason to be a turn-off to people who aren't into them. I could go into reasons like how some people have their gag reflexes stir when they think about blowjobs cuz of the mental image of a phallic shape poking at the back of their throat, but really the exact reasoning is besides the main point of "dicks are unappealing to this audience and take away from the desired experience by being there" and that take isn't any less valid (for lack of a better word) because you can stare at dicks without getting turned off. There's a reason some of us look exclusively for (or at least for a majority of) lesbian content as opposed to, say, bisexual content.

Pardon if my tone comes across as hostile over text, just trying to emphasize how no dicks is very much the point of the tag. Obviously some are, as said, more chill about it than others; but try and thought-experimenting by picturing your fetish getting regularly interrupted by a weird focus on, say, gay porn in the middle of it or how you get a tiny scene of what you like and then suddenly it's thrice that length of scat porn. Or insert some other kink you might consider a deal-breaker. You get the idea right?
 
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that is not something that is only for straight sex, taking out the part that "usually involves penetration".
showing "The feeling of arousal from the characters and the actual sex" is one of the main points of any sex scene, whether straight or homo.
Yeah, I could have worded that better. It's not specific to straight sex, it's more about the fact that you have to show arousal for both the guy and the girl to make a straight scene realistic and it's harder if you try to hide the dick as much as you can.

all this depends on how the game makes that kind of scenes, for example if the game shows us what the mc is imagining and that is the scene then I see more sense.

but if the game only shows us the mc jerking off, I don't see the sense and appeal of this type of scenes for someone straight I doubt very much that straight man would be interested in watching scenes of men masturbating.

and also for many of us a dick is a complete turn off, especially for us lesbians.
I agree. A male masturbation scene won't really do it for straight men if it's there just for the sake of it.

And I was really talking about straight men, as the discussion earlier started to sound like "why would a straight guy want dicks in his straight game" which seemed odd to me.

Everyone have their own takes on it, but suffice to say you have no clue what you're talking about when you say dicks have no reason to be a turn-off to people who aren't into them. I could go into reasons like how some people have their gag reflexes stir when they think about blowjobs cuz of the mental image of a phallic shape poking at the back of their throat, but really the exact reasoning is besides the main point of "dicks are unappealing to this audience and take away from the desired experience by being there" and that take isn't any less valid (for lack of a better word) because you can stare at dicks without getting turned off. There's a reason some of us look exclusively for (or at least for a majority of) lesbian content as opposed to, say, bisexual content.

Pardon if my tone comes across as hostile over text, just trying to emphasize how no dicks is very much the point of the tag. Obviously some are, as said, more chill about it than others; but try and thought-experimenting by picturing your fetish getting regularly interrupted by a weird focus on, say, gay porn in the middle of it or how you get a tiny scene of what you like and then suddenly it's thrice that length of scat porn. Or insert some other kink you might consider a deal-breaker. You get the idea right?
Not disagreeing with the tag issue. Just wanted to throw my opinion on the matter of straight consumers tolerating dicks in their game for the sake of the experience.

Obviously, if the sight of a dick is such a turn-off to you or anyone else, I have no say in your reaction. We all have our pet peeves, especially in something as broad as sexual preferences.
 
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I think it's mostly related to the fact that I only wrote male MC before, and all of my females characters were supportive characters that felt bland.

Picking a tomboy-ish MC is a way to avoid this more easily since you can start with a much more hot-headed personality.

I think my writing is overall fine, but I will see it clearly when I will be able to post the very first version of my game.
Yeah, that sounds fair. I do think it's a good choice to start with, if that's what you're comfortable with, and I look forward to seeing how that comes out :).

I still think there is some tropes you should avoid when writing a female MC. As an example, having a perverted female MC is a bone killer to me.
I wouldn't say that anything should be totally off the table, but I do feel like there's some which would be awkward to do well/would only work in certain games and probably wouldn't appeal to me, and I think I agree with that one. Like, I think that could work for a comedy game, or... well, it might be funny to see a girl doing panty raids or something similar - I actually do wish there were a few more games with a bit of buildup and doing pervy stuff but not storming into any outright sex or anything. But just a plain pervert going around like in most Male MC VN's would probably be uninteresting in the same way that I find the male counterparts lacking.
 
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