No, it's like if your wife cheats on you with a guy, and you know she' s cheating on you, but you don't see it, then you don't care.
not only did you fail to understand my post you even facepalmed it lol
and im not sure how your reply has any context in reply to my post at all as im not married and even if i was and i KNEW she was cheating, why would i NOT care? i fail to see how a reference to cheating, dishonour in a relationship, has anything to do with either your original post or my own.
the point i was making was that if the scene happens or not is irrelevant. how would you know if it does or doesn't? if you are not on that path then what does it matter? your question has no answer, hence my response. if someone tells you it does happen then how does that effect anything? and if someone tells you it doesn't happen, again how does that effect anything?
either way, unless you are on the pervert path, you dont see it, like a tree in the woods with no one around