Ok thanks - one last thing - this is real frustrating - I spent a long time customizing my cool bedroom, but whenever I host group sex sessions or swinging with my girlfriend, it takes me to the "living room" of the same building, which is cluttered with a kitchen table. Ive tried inviting them in different orders, moving to new houses, but its always the same. Regular sex happens in the location where i ask however. -edit, fixed this with the earlier room edit in thread.
Also - is there something known to be bugged with co-habitation? My gf asked to live together, I said why dont you move in with me, she said fine, but shes not there and still has her own house. Even odder, now the "move to her current location" via contacts menu often wont work.
In addition, I came back to a saved file and it changed my character's name and appearance to my in game's wife, even though she's still in game?? Is this a known issue? I'm not playing with transgender mode on....
i.e. my character is John Smith, Wife is Emily Smith, when I reloaded a save, I'm Emily Smith, yet the old Emily Smith is also still in game as an npc.