is trap/crossdresser an option in the game?
Not really. You don't have fem clothes for male and can rarely change a male char to a more feminine optic. Also male chars don't have any options for makeup.
Vinfamy
PLEASE LISTEN TO YOUR FAN COMMUNITY! Instead of creating new content, please, please focus on adding animations and accessories (e.g. femboy accessories, male bondage accessories, changing the dominance system to a gender-based one to be able to implement male submission, real implementation of watersports (-> currently no arousal through water games in sex scenes), updating the documentation for modders, fixing bugs (the stats are weird, calculations are wrong... depending on the difficulty level of the game...).
I'm sure this would make your game even more successful (IT DESERVES IT) and the vast majority of your fans, including patreons, would be willing to give up the KOTM for half a year if it would improve the game experience.
If you take the tenor of the feedbacks here seriously, you'll notice that many old-guard fans are about to turn their backs on you and your project.
At least, if I were you, I would ask the patreons if they see it the same way. I fully understand that the band plays what the paying audience would like to hear.