Both of those games are major offenders. As has been suggested, the way "around" this seems to be just to save near the beginning of each new scene and, if you find a save doesn't load on a new release, back up to the previous one and try again. In this game, I was able to load where Jess and the MC were kissing near the end of the previous release. Since I have multiple saves, it wasn't really bad this time, only a few seconds of skipping to get to the new content.
On My Pleasure, I was able to load my second-to-last save, but the game loaded back quite a long ways. I was just glad it loaded so that I only had to hold Skip for maybe 10 seconds before I was where the original save had been.