You make a good point, I see where you're coming from. Just saying maybe people can tone down their emotions a bit. It's kinda frustrating for some of us to see a new game with something like ntr (there aren't many) and think "oh, this could be fun". Then some of the first comments you see are something like "fuck this shit, rage quit and deleted, never coming back to this thread!" Really? Straight to boycotting the dev after playing the first version? Can't they just say "Hey, I don't want to see any ntr, can you make it avoidable?" There are tons of games without it and very few with it, and it seems like when one pops up, the masses of haters show up to try to kill it.
I'm not even that into ntr, most games I play and enjoy are the slow burn romance type where I woo the shy innocent girl and have a beautiful relationship with her (and her friends and family of course). But sometimes I want to see my "landlady" and "roommates" get blackmailed into some rough bondage group sex with my neighbor Old Man Johnson and his dog. And unfortunately, that's hard to find.