DeviantFun
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I would always accept accountability from anyone that behaved badly and realizes they need to do better, they might not have a chance with me anymore, but it is good for their future.But Lacey's own words and admittance...are you going to go against those?
Would also fit lovely. She the one actually using Mia (after Mia initially pushed her) but once that happened...Lacey blameless....was all Mia's fault....not miiiine my love (flutters eyelashes at MC)
Let me try and make a stupid example, I could go over the speed limit and crash my car, would you take into account that I was rushing to the hospital for an emergency, it was my choice and my mistake, yet I was under some circumstances that clouded my ability to make a good choice.
Add to this that I had a "friend" in the car that kept on shouting that if I don't go faster I might miss my chance and that they are a rally navigator, they know the road well and can help me out (we end in a ditch after taking the wrong turn 15 times thanks to the suggestions).
So you see, I accept that Lacey admits it and it is true and will always be true, but her responsability and accountability does NOT erase the responsability from Mia.
We know she approached Lacey in a moment of weakness, we know she exploited that and insisted a lot, we know she cemented her position with her to the point where it was important for Lacey to make her happy (she was her only friend).
We know that it was just a game for her.
It was just a curiosity, we played very different drinking games and even then most of the time there were not games at all, just talking and getting wasted/high.Not to date myself, but those two games were not big when I was in school and college. It was mostly Truth or Dare and quarters.
I disagree, you see, Lacey presented the whole experience as miserable to the point where she didn't get out of the room high on K to go and fuck whatever Mia decided she had to fuck that week.Yes, she did have some fun. But, when you are talking about depression people who are depressed will still have fun and alot of the times after they have that fun they will feel guilty for having it.
Lacey made it through the severe depression she had through college and she would probably tell you college was a horrible time for her, but that doesn't mean that there weren't good days or good parts. I don't think it's a lie for her to say it was all bad even if there were good parts.
In reality, from the new information, she was living an almost "normal" college life in junior year, with a lot of slutting it out sprinkled on top (more dumped but you get what I mean), which makes the slutting it out even more seedy (I know and accept some of her reasoning).
This brings me to a point you might have missed about Lacey, she loves portraying herself as the victim, so everything was bad everyone was bad, yet she was having tons of fun in the meantime.
If you remember just a few posts ago I made a sort of explanation on how Lacey lies, her lies tend to always paint her as the victim.
I am sorry but Mc needs more honesty from her.
Well, I might be too critical of her, she did try to make something fun (and fucked it up in true Lacey's fashion), I blame the girls more than I blame her.Yes, the game was another poor choice by Lacey. And even worse because her "friends" didn't stop and say, "you know that game can get pretty mean right?" And then nobody even thought, "you know Lacey wants this to be touch on some uncomfortable topics without turning things bad. I think I can think of some questions to do that.
They might resurface, Lacey is not happy on how the KW went (it was objectively a disaster even before the video), so those might come up again, hopefully.I forgot to mention this, but yes. What was the deal with the "Special Instructions".
Yes, but it is even worse than that, you see what you posted is more akin to having given good advice that wasn't followed or at least frustration at what happened.This is textbook victim blaming.
"oh you got raped, well you shouldn't have wore that dress". "you shouldn't have gone to that party". "you shouldn't have hung out with that guy. Everyone knows he's a player"
"abused by husband/relative?" "you should have left them" "you should have told someone" "what did you do to to make them do it?"
Mia PUSHED Lacey to do all that, after all it was not her ass on the line, for her it was just a game.
Accepting things sitting down and devaluing and invalidating your feelings is not growth, it is involution, and luckily it is presented as such also in the story (dianne at home dialogue).I do see gradual growth. He is not getting angry and running away from every comment. And he has had a couple of moments like standing up to Isaac in the bar. And I loved how he and Lacey handled Will in front of their apartment.
But I get your point and most of the time he just lies there and takes it. He's been the punching bag his whole life. Once he is able to get over his flight response I do hope he is able to start standing up to people.
MC stood up to Isaac in the most verbose rap battle I have ever seen
And the Will treatment...well I guess it could be fun, it is personal taste.
But you misunderstand, MC was not a punching bag his whole life, he is a punching bag for Lacey and this story prevents any female character to face any consequences (I made a list some time ago), but if you are male, MC will come for you, he is able to stand up to people just fine.
100% Lacey as a child was surviving and had a horrible life, being a psychic vampire is because of that and only because she feels that MC is the only person that TRULY cared for her more than anything else.Do y'all think she was feeding on her parents and MC as a child?
The way I see it is she was a broken victim, who went through a shit life.
She latched (direct quote) to him and needs him, his jealousy outbursts are llike gold for her as they make her feel that he wants to keep her close and will never let her go.
the first part is all confirmed in the material tho.She went to college and for the first two years nothing but school and depression. In the second year she found drugs and alcohol.
In her third year, someone came to the school looking for a snack. Someone who needed to feed and they found a broken girl who they could mold into the perfect person to use to feed. She even convinced her victim that it was all her fault and that she was the one feeding off of the sex and guys while she stood behind her pulling the energy through her so she herself could feed.
Then a wrench is thrown into things, her tool decides to clean herself up. She still manages to arrange gangbangs, but it's not the same and she manages to get her victim to fall of the wagon a number of times, but it's still not enough and that's when she introduces her to Isaac and he has a 3 week feeding frenzy off of our victim. It is all going great when tragedy strikes and a phone call comes in to Lacey.
Now Mia is doing everything she can to stay close to her victim and feed when she can.
No I don't think this is really happening, but it's a fun distraction.