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It's the default MC name so I just went with it.Quick confirmation? I assume "Gristle" is the name for the MC you have given?
It's the default MC name so I just went with it.Quick confirmation? I assume "Gristle" is the name for the MC you have given?
You can find it it the script, ended up being unused in favour of player choiceQuick confirmation? I assume "Gristle" is the name for the MC you have given?
Thanks for the kind words. You come across as reasonable and I appreciate that you are able to communicate without attacking.
I don't know if you read the scapegoating link I sent but I do think this interpretation is strongly supported by the text. Abuse victims who blame themselves get shuffled into the scapegoat role in the family. Therapy means learned to stop accepting the blame from others.
Here is a quote from the link:
That's Lacey. And therapy for her would be a real threat to the relationship because she would no longer accept that she is always at fault for everything that goes wrong. Let's hope some monster doesn't come along and ruin her chances of recovery!
It's the default MC name so I just went with it.
That is funny, I guess I never noticed that. What an odd name to pick...You can find it it the script, ended up being unused in favour of player choice
I completely agree, but there are three "buts."Any psychiatrist will tell you that you need to leave the source of your mental problems behind. Imagine telling a drug addict "just use more drugs because you are addicted to drugs". Should Captain SaveAHoe seek therapy? Absolutly. Will it be hard? Absolutly. I had a severe depression and PTSD around 10 years ago because I surrounded myself with the wrong people. As I've stated, I'm painfully aware what (child)abuse and drug addiction can do to a person. I used to feel empathy for those people. but they tend to destroy everything around them. As you can probably imagine, I tried to save a few people around me as well, because I also naivly thought I could change anything. My mental health suffered greatly, but those people just descended further into the abyss. Red flags are red flags for a reason and Lacey has so many of them (Abuser, Manipulator, Gaslighter, Self-Harm, Toxic friend group, Drug Addict, high body count, just to name a few) it isn't even funny. It will always end the same way - in a tragedy. I left all those people behind and never looked back. That is the healthy thing to do. Captain SaveAHoe should have asked Anna (loyal, faithful, mostly honest, low body count) to leave the city after college together and start a new life. He should've seeked treatment in college, if not even way earlier. He should've cut contact with the people weighing him down (mostly Lacey and Mia) and ghosted them completly.
Did it maybe occur to you that she replies they are right in those instances, because they really are right? Because her actions were actually indefensible? Why would you not factor the most obvious cause for those replies in your take?It's not that once you realize you are working an unreliable narrator anything goes.
Let me talk about game of thrones / a song of ice and fire because that's the unreliable narrator story most people know best .I'm operating on the assumption that the series was based on the rough drafts of books to come out and SOME of what happened in the series will happen in the book. Notably the showdown between two brothers - Tyrian and Jamie
Tyrion is the bookish nerd, Jamie the dumb jock. Time and time again we hear about how smart Tyrian is. And there is proof - he was able to talk his way out of death sentence. Tyrian reads history and books on military strategy. Jamie learns to swing a sword even harder. In Tyrion's POV he is always saying Jamie is dumb. Jamie's dad agrees. His sister agrees. Jamie = dumb. Jamie loses an important battle and Jamie tells us Jamie is dumb.
So then the showdown happens - opposite sides of a war - jock vs nerd in battle of wits. Who is going to come up the better strategy? Duh - Tyrion who has read all the strategy books right? Nope, Jamie wins - even though every flawed POV statement predicted that Jamie would lose. To accurately predict this out come you had to pay attention to small details in the POVs 1) Tyrian keeps losing at chess games 2) Jamie is capable of learning from his mistakes 3) Jamie isn't as dumb as everyone says he is
It's fun to make predictions about future chapters by locating critical points in the dialogue or description of events - the chess game was the clue you needed to solve that mystery.
So the fun bits of the narrative come from noticing patterns. When Gristle shuts down and refuses to process information someone tells us this happens. "When he's in the mode he won't listen" But the very same thing happens with Lacey but the narrator doesn't tell us this has happened - because Gristle can't allow himself to notice.
So when Lacey goes into this mode
You're right
You're right, I shouldn't have done that
You're right, I did do that and I'm sorry
Please don't leave me!
You are right, I acted horribly
You are right . . . .
You need to connect some dots in the story: she was abused as kid and she learned to survive by agreeing with tormenters. She learned to heal herself by aggreeing to participate in any sex act others wanted her to do. You also need to notice a pattern. I mean rarely is any one right 100 percent of the time but when Lacey is in that mode Gristle is always, always right. Anna is always right. Everyone is always right except Lacey and her stupid decisions.
And we do need to use outside sources to interpret events - usually psychological theory. We know that Lacey is crazy but what type of crazy is she?
This type of crazy:
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If I remember right, that is only up to the point of the present. That is, up until we start the story of her return.1. The game tells us in the first minute of starting that we shouldn't accept things the narrator says as truth. I may be wrong about my monster theory but I am resolute in my belief that this is an unreliable narrator story. I mean the dev tells us that almost immediately
So even if we only accept the internal logic of the game, the game tells us to not believe Gristle
2. The game tells us not to only accept the internal logic of the game. So we're in a real bind - if we only use internal logic we are going against the wishes of the dev. The dev tells us that the MC has PTSD and depression. He later adds co dependency. We are asked to interpret the text according to those outside sources.
So, yeah, K doesn't quite work the way the author says it does. But scapegoating works just like this story does. Everything is the scapegoat's fault. The scapegoat started the fight. The scapegoat is responsible for all this drama. The scapegoat is the person who is always screwing up.
Because that's not the sort of story this is. The dev tells us in the first minute of the game that we shouldn't confuse the MC's / Narrator's POV with truth. It IS an unreliable narrator story. I am truly stunned that people aren't interpreting it that way when the author tells us that we should read it that way.Did it maybe occur to you that she replies they are right in those instances, because they really are right? Because her actions were actually indefensible? Why would you not factor the most obvious cause for those replies in your take?
The most obvious is "family scapegoat" imo but you are right that the MC is also a narcissist. You cooould argue that Lacey is also one because there is a something very narcissistic about always accepting the blame butthe most obvious and the writer has actually name dropped in the game, is NPD. Which happens to fit like a glove the extremely toxic bond the writer wants to portray, since the dude is codependent. They are each other's tailor made drug.
Give me an example please. You are absolutely right this this a case study in self destruction - for both main characters - but I sincerely believe that Gristle's fatal flaw - the keystone of his personality - is his rampant, blatantly obvious misogyny and that fit hand in glove with Lacey's willingness to a be hate sink.On the few times she has been pressed to reveal why she keeps doing things she knows are wrong again and again, on rare occasions when MC dismantles a flimsy rationalization, she answers with "I can't answer you why".
Good point. That might be Gristle's story. I mean the dev tells us he has PTSD. From what? What caused him to become the worthless shit that he is?Since you like to examine how her past abuse might play a part on her current self and you claim you are looking for patterns, how come you didn't mention one of the most common for this type of thing? Which is an abused, growing to be an abuser.
No.Also, this doesn't say "don't believe", it says that recollects may not be accurate to an extent. That means nothing, it doesn't dismiss his account, nor does it bolster another view. It simply means, we don't know.
I think you are in the wrong game thread.Because that's not the sort of story this is. The dev tells us in the first minute of the game that we shouldn't confuse the MC's / Narrator's POV with truth. It IS an unreliable narrator story. I am truly stunned that people aren't interpreting it that way when the author tells us that we should read it that way.
The MC calls himself an incel when he has having a incel rage moment. In that case he was right - he was acting like an incel.
The most obvious is "family scapegoat" imo but you are right that the MC is also a narcissist. You cooould argue that Lacey is also one because there is a something very narcissistic about always accepting the blame but
Give me an example please. You are absolutely right this this a case study in self destruction - for both main characters - but I sincerely believe that Gristle's fatal flaw - the keystone of his personality - is his rampant, blatantly obvious misogyny and that fit hand in glove with Lacey's willingness to a be hate sink.
You absolutely right that these two are made for each other - but it's sadist-misogynist + masochist-scapegoat relationship.
Indeed the one person that might help Gristle - other than the therapist - is the mdom at the dungeon. He could teach gristle to acknowledge his sadistic desires and to reign them in. But, tragically, jealously prevents him from learning what that master can teach.
Good point. That might be Gristle's story. I mean the dev tells us he has PTSD. From what? What caused him to become the worthless shit that he is?
I guess that works out well for your narrative.No.
This is not just a case of walks like a duck and quacks like a duck ergo a duck. It's "walks like a duck and quacks like a duck and person who wrote the story tells us it's a duck"
It's an unreliable narrator story.
lol. What do these word mean. Forget who wrote them what do they mean:I think you are in the wrong game thread.
It means that most of the things you are referring to, do not exist in this game. Only in your unique and quite nonsensical version of it.lol. What do these word mean. Forget who wrote them what do they mean:
"Remember the MC is also the narrator"
"And just because he says something, that doesn't make it true"
"He's just as unreliable as any other human being"
"Go easy on him though, he's dealing with own mental health issues"
"And like anybody who has these issues, will sometimes make unhealthy decisions"
I'm giving you d minus for reading comprehension.It means that most of the things you are referring to, do not exist in this game. Only in your unique and quite nonsensical version of it.
That is true. The point is that "when in doubt, the woman is at fault" is a sexist trope that both MC's have accepted and internalized. So there is patternAlso the unreliable narrator mechanic doesn't apply to everything you see on screen. The dev gives obvious clues for reality breaks. Not even that subtle. And there are plenty of situations and convos provided, that aren't shown from MC's PoV but corroborate what we do see from his PoV.
Yes. They are all insane in different ways and I have guesses as to the diagnoses for each. Are you really going to deny that Christine has daddy issues?Is every single character of this game delusional in your unique version of it?
No offense, but your arguments are turning into a stereotype.I'm giving you d minus for reading comprehension.
That is true. The point is that "when in doubt, the woman is at fault" is a sexist trope that both MC's have accepted and internalized. So there is pattern
Yes. They are all insane in different ways and I have guesses as to the diagnoses for each. Are you really going to deny that Christine has daddy issues?