Good God, mate. You are not even a supporter, and you want us to alter our vision solely to suit your tastes? Come on. At least give it a chance.
1. I use a unique name in every single website to avoid doxing. And I never link site accounts.
my patreon and subscribestar accounts each have a unique name which is completely different from the name i use in F95.
I highly recommend everyone to do that. doxing bad.
2. your vision underwent some changes since the game started.
you should really have clear vision of what you want to do when you start developing.
and you should be honest and upfront about what that vision is
3. I am not trying to force you to cater to my fetishes. make whatever game you want.
I do refuse to accept gaslighting though. I hate it when megacorps gaslight me. I hate it when indie devs gaslight me.
Lots of indie devs are completely transparent and do NOT gaslight about what they want in their game.
when it does not fit my preferences I just move on.
4. while a lot of people only give self serving advice of "you should cater specifically only to my fetishes".
not everyone does. so you shouldn't just assume everyone you talk to has that mindset