I do try to give the player a lot of options in the game. You can ignore a whole lot of content if you want to, the majority of it. If you only do one playthrough you're missing 7 or 8 girls who all have 4 atm free time events each, you're likely missing a lot of the collectible things, at least a good number of them, you're missing 2/3 of the event day stuff. I can only go so far before the game just becomes a sandbox without any story. Once the next update and the one after come out, it'll be more clear, but there is a plot happening that requires some pieces in place. I totally understand the problem of not being able to avoid fetishes. I tried to make the event day choices on the less extreme side for the most part with at least one option where I expected almost anyone would be at least ok with it, but people's tastes are so different, that's impossible to get right for everyone unfortunately. And the point was that the MC wouldn't be forced into anything, once you choose for something to happen to him, he's up for it. I hope that explains my reasoning well enough. Thank you for giving the game a chance.