If she knows what she wants let her go first. If she's not sure, order first. If she has no idea, order for the both of you.
for the drinks I got:
Tropical, not too strong= Pina Colada
Tropical, not too light= Daquari (I probably spelled that wrong...Fuck it, I drink whiskey!)
Creamy, not too light= mudslide
I would guess Creamy, not too strong is Irish Coffee (never had that come up for me.)
Cards.
6 and 4= Hit
5 and 6= double up
Pair of Jacks= Split.
I can only guess the other one is stay by process of elimination.