Generally speaking, nobody can claim on one hand to love and care about their husband or wife, while simultaneously cheating on them, that's hypocrisy with double standards mixed in with the entitlement salad.
Cheating is cheating, its not a complax choice, it's a simple one between yes and no and Vivian chose yes. If you look back at Vivians character and her actions she's the main instigator:
Chp1:
1. Vivian threats her husband like hes a child incapable of looking aftet his own affairs,
she goes behind Hutches back, dresses like a slutty school girl ( not a professional lady), approaches Christian ( in the early hours of the morning when theirs no one around) and basically tries to sexually seduce Christian in his office. Christian sees through her, side-steps her advances, which has Vivian hooked on him. On the drive back home, she licks her lips as she can't stop thinking about Christian. For the first time in her life, she's been non-verbally told NO, and she liked it.
2: she emasculates her husband Hutch by ignoring his request not to join him at the first meeting at Christian house, going anyway as she is wet between the legs to be around her Mr.No, the Alpha dog that she's always wanted, Christian. She further emasculates Hutch by wearing high-heels, as we see Hutch state the following " I don't like it when you wear hight-heels", this was deliberately done by Vivian as she want to visually show Christian "here look at this wee twat of a man I don't want him, I want you Christian"
3. As we find out in Chp2 ending, that it was Vivian that initiated the sex in the garden, first time around, not Christian.
4: she goes on to fuck Christian all night long with her husband in the next room, sneaking to and from the kitchen back to Christian bedroom like a untrustworthy child waiting for their parents to be asleep to steal a biscuit or two from the cookie jar.
5: later in Chp1, she's really goes for Hutches troat, she doesn't just emasculate him this time, she out right humiliates him infront of all of his office college's by showing up at his work place dressed like a lady with a lovely dress and hat, as she proceeds to have sex with Christian in the bathroom as everyone is working in the next room, what a kick in the singers for Hutch
6: at the end of Chp1, Vivian is completely obsessed with Christian, and she very cleaverly manipulates Hutch with 101 narcissist persuions tactics into accepting her open marriage proposal scenario, with "I'm doing this for us, I'm doing this for YOU", what an absolute slag of a woman
Chp2:
1. She dress like a complete whore, for the dinner date, as she sexually objectifys herself by wearing a dress with her tits hanging out for the world to see. That dress ( much like women wearing yoga pants today, with the crack of their arses and snatches hanging out for the world to see) leaves nothing to the imagination and sends out social signal's that those yoga pants wearing women, but in the case of the character Vivian are nothing more than a cheap attention seeking whores and an easy lays. Yoga pants along with multicolored hair, 90s tramp stamps and nose rings are ( and this has been proven by actual psychological studies) alarming identifiets and red-flags sign's of a traumised individual with deep emotional scares and in the case of Vivians character, that your dealing with a low value women, which Vivian clearly is.
2: after the dinner date, it is Vivian that starts the conversation in the car about the size of Christian cock, it's Vivian that can't stop talking about Christian cock and it's Vivian that asks Christian to take his cock out and it's Vivian that initiates the sex in the car.
3: outside her own house, she proceeds to take things to the next level, emasculating her husband wasnt enough, humiliating him isn't even enough either, she's has to literally destroy him and herself and her marriage by having sex with Christian in front of the whole neighbourhood, naked. What a disgusting woman, it's all me, me, me and more me but then again, what do you expect from a so-called modern day woman, hypocritical cheap slags that they are.
4: Hutch was never enough for Vivian to begin with, thats clear to everyone, but now the Christian experience is starting to wear thin with her also, ( I guess a yoga pants wearing, short haired, nose pierced cheap whore can never be satisfied) she decides to "Go-it-Alone" sitting in her house wearing Christian t-shirt ( not any of Hutch's) she uses her husband and her lovers absence as an excuse to further her narcissist open marriage sexual trill seeking antics by heading out and allowing herself to be picked-up for a threesome. She then proceeds to hand her anal Virginity away to a complete stranger ( fist time around) after dening that pleasure to Hutch for 20 years as she tells sunshine that she wants her stink whole loosed not for her husband but for her lover Christian.
5: she then gives her number to a student, alarming bells there
6: dont be fooled by the hotel grape sence, Vivian could have easily walked away but we know she is a narcissist trill seeker, who seeks social validation through sexually objectifying herself though the only skill she got to offer anyone and that is sex. When the new client opened his hotel door, she deliberately walked head- first into that trap. she knew what was required of her and she went for it, only to play the victim later as all modern-day 3rd and 4th wave feminist slags do, as they rewrite history and their actions in their heads to justify their entitled and despicable choices, this is further backed up as she tells Christian that she loved being taking and graped, it made her feel powerful, that she now feels that she could do anything, as she goes on to tell Christian "I'm yours now "
Q: looking back, dose any of Vivian's dissions and action's betray a woman that is a loving a wife and mother, that is doing all that she can to protect and safegard her husband and his career and their family? Or do Vivian's choices and her actions reveal that she is a very selfishly, self-interested, self-serving, impulsively, manipulative 3rd and 4th wave entitled narcissist feminist gold-digger? Vivians choices and actions show that she is looking after one person and one person only, and thats herself, Vivian is safe garding her own long-term interests with her deluded, entitled monkey branching behaviour?