noahsombrero
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- Aug 9, 2023
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Because sex is an expression of love. As long as there is love how can it get old? But sometimes a couple needs help with that.If you're happy with that, go ahead. But I assume you're aware that this is a very particular case, right?
A relationship rarely opens up, and for good reason.
And yes, sex is very important in a couple. Why? Because it's the most intimate act you can share, and intimacy creates a bond. And if balancing a single bond is already complicated, things get even harder with more than one. Are there people who can do it? I doubt it. But if someone can do it, great. That's not the norm, though. And it's usually a very bad idea.
And there's also a lot of infantilism in the statement that sex is boring with just one person. That sounds like a little kid addicted to novelty, not a mature adult.
That is why there are therapists. If there is love, the therapist can help. If not...
But if you don't experience love, how sad for you.
Love can be tricky though. Sometimes a couple needs to separate to discover that they are more miserable apart than together. Ok, that is something to work with, now get busy and do the work to maintain your relationship. You will be so glad you did.
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