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If you're happy with that, go ahead. But I assume you're aware that this is a very particular case, right?
A relationship rarely opens up, and for good reason.
And yes, sex is very important in a couple. Why? Because it's the most intimate act you can share, and intimacy creates a bond. And if balancing a single bond is already complicated, things get even harder with more than one. Are there people who can do it? I doubt it. But if someone can do it, great. That's not the norm, though. And it's usually a very bad idea.
And there's also a lot of infantilism in the statement that sex is boring with just one person. That sounds like a little kid addicted to novelty, not a mature adult.
Because sex is an expression of love. As long as there is love how can it get old? But sometimes a couple needs help with that.
That is why there are therapists. If there is love, the therapist can help. If not...

But if you don't experience love, how sad for you.

Love can be tricky though. Sometimes a couple needs to separate to discover that they are more miserable apart than together. Ok, that is something to work with, now get busy and do the work to maintain your relationship. You will be so glad you did.
 
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I had a theory maybe it's completely stupid. What if Hutch and Addison were an item before ?

From her own admission, Vivian was not the most exciting lover for Hutch. Maybe he had an affair for a time with Addison. Christian knows and has his eye on Hutch for retaliation. Retaliation came when the first night at the boss(s house came. Hutch cannot say anything because his secret would be revealed and maybe he thinks he deserves it. That's maybe why Addison was hostile towards Vivian. That's why she's running after Hutch. It can even explain ED in Hutch due to guilt or having his mind somewhere else.
but why would he cry then?
 

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Because sex is an expression of love. As long as there is love how can it get old? But sometimes a couple needs help with that.
That is why there are therapists. If there is love, the therapist can help. If not...

But if you don't experience love, how sad for you.

Love can be tricky though. Sometimes a couple needs to separate to discover that they are more miserable apart than together. Ok, that is something to work with, now get busy and do the work to maintain your relationship. You will be so glad you did.
sorry but sex and love are different things. True you have sex with someone you love (at least I hope you do) but you can have sex without loving them.
 
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sorry but sex and love are different things. True you have sex with someone you love (at least I hope you do) but you can have sex without loving them.
Well, of course, and then it is not an expression of love. But when sex is an expression of love, there is a world of difference.
 

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I had a theory maybe it's completely stupid. What if Hutch and Addison were an item before ?

From her own admission, Vivian was not the most exciting lover for Hutch. Maybe he had an affair for a time with Addison. Christian knows and has his eye on Hutch for retaliation. Retaliation came when the first night at the boss(s house came. Hutch cannot say anything because his secret would be revealed and maybe he thinks he deserves it. That's maybe why Addison was hostile towards Vivian. That's why she's running after Hutch. It can even explain ED in Hutch due to guilt or having his mind somewhere else.
Very good. Finally, the right questions are being asked. What if Hutch has a dark past or a secret that prevents him from standing up to the Boss and Vi because he feels guilty about the secret?
 

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She says what he tells her to say.
But it's just a theory of mine. A possibility.
According to what we know of the story at the moment, she is his niece, you're right.
I'd say that sc did not put officegirl there with her big crush for no reason. One way or the other, I bet she makes use of it.
But since it the situation is no big surprise, perhaps sc will change her mind. Big surprises is the rule.
 

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And where Christian got the information about Vi's favorite wine remains unclear to this day. It wasn't Hutch. Coincidence?:ROFLMAO:
 

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Very good. Finally, the right questions are being asked. What if Hutch has a dark past or a secret that prevents him from standing up to the Boss and Vi because he feels guilty about the secret?
I'd say husband realizes that there is no reason to do anything as long as wife is a willing participant as she must certainly seem to be after that dinner at boss' house. Yes, she is protesting and not acting very willing except when they are actually doing it
but all he sees is them doing it and hears her cries of pleasure. Yes, he is experiencing grief and confusion right now, as is normal. The crunch comes when he gets ready to leave her and do something about the situation. The smart thing would be to leave town, and get a new start somewhere else. He might not be that smart.

Unless she were to come to him and confess what she has been doing and ask for forgiveness. That would be a different story depending on whether he can forgive her. But she does not do that so far.

It isn't about what strutting males can accomplish by confronting each other. It is about what wife finds in her heart. If she finds willingness to participate in sex with boss, there is no strut that will change that. I'm sure that if she were calling to husband for help from the bedroom, he would be right in there. The same as he started to do when he was in the woman's bathroom and she came in and boss came in and started on her. At first she was resisting and he was getting ready to come to her aid, but then he saw her giving in. No sense in interfering. Husband is not the wuss that so many take him to be.

I'm hearing wife to say to boss, "I'm with you. I won't keep pretending I'm not." Yes that does say her unwillingness has been a pretense, since from the start probably. But she still hates herself anyway. Humans are complex creatures.

Including those strutting males who think they can change what a woman finds in her heart by acting tough.
 
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For your viewing pleasure:

The fake orgasm scene from from "When Harry Met Sally".



At my advanced age, I admit I have never witnessed a woman orgasm like that. Sometimes it is hard to tell. But
if they fail to reach orgasm, they will let you know and ask, could you wait a little longer or whatever they need. It is not
that you don't give them satisfaction, but you know, wait a little longer. In practice, I have found the best
idea is to let them tell you when they are ready and you can climax together. That always feels nice.
 
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Although I think the story is brilliantly written, there's something that bothers me : Vivian's behavior with the students.
In chap1, her openly flirting attitude with the creepy twins. She lets them discuss about her in a sexy bikini, one of them gropes her in front of her son and she does nothing !? Not a very good mother/respectable housewife vibe...
In chap2, I really don't understand why on earth she gives her number to Marcel ! She did nothing objectionable in front of him, he certainly can't have any proof of a guilty behavior. Though, by giving him her number, she proved him that she had something to hide, opening the door to a possible blackmail...
Porn logic...? Maybe. We'll see.
I think there is something missing about Vivian from recent posts. I am not directing this at you, but your comment about her son's roommates gives me an opportunity to address Vivian's motives. She is motivated by a lot more than just sex.

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isnt it amazing for 22 years she was a faithful housewife.. especially younger , sexier an nobody liked her until the 22nd year.. nobody hit on her. never got duped into anything. was always smart enough not to fall into traps.. but once you take away that paycheck thats when the hooker heals comeout boyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Dam that is funny Duke!
 
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I think there is something missing about Vivian from recent posts. I am not directing this at you, but your comment about her son's roommates gives me an opportunity to address Vivian's motives. She is motivated by a lot more than just sex.

Here she talks about her fear of not measuring up to younger women.
I don't think this is unusual. Many women will ask questions like, "Does this make my ass look big?" Or other
requests for approval from somerbody whose opinion matters to them. A smart man knows to answer, "no, dear, your ass is just right in that dress," exactly like boss does.
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Here she was hoping to get picked up by a younger guy. She wanted to see if she still had it. That is what the inviting smile is all about.
Yes she is. But I think your insight is on the shallow side. What she really needs it to know if the sex she has with boss is about him or her generic response to men in general.

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Some young guys aren't attracted to older women, even pretty ones like Vivian. I think this is what the author is showing us here.
Right, but this is no reflection on wife. She has a lot to learn.

Notice the hurt look on Vivian's face.
So what. She has feelings.

You see it here a second later when Sunshine shows up.

This insecurity is one of the biggest things that motivates Vivian. It isn't the only thing, but it is ONE of her main motivators. As I already said, this insecurity is also manifested in her fear of Hutch being with another woman, particularly a younger prettier woman like Addison. Notice Vivian's facial expressions and body language while she talks about Addison with Hutch.
A normal response to rejection, coupled with all the other things she is troubled about.

I took this as part of wife dealing with her guilt. It was almost like she was giving him permission. It is also
true that she would be devastated if he did. She is a troubled person right now.

Christian of course uses this insecurity against Vivian. I am sure he has been aware of it as since he first met her. He was toying with her during their dinner date, and during the drive home.

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Same deal, the is the guy telling his love interest that, no the dress does not make her ass look big, as is his duty.

For example, Vivian says she felt powerful when men were humiliating her and degrading her.
The question was not while, but after the ordeal was over.
Actually she looks angry.
She has already stormed into his house spouting anger at being sent there, this is more anger. But I think what she
says deserves attention. Why would anyone say those things if they felt degraded? She feels anger, but something else.
She feels relieved that that guy did not make her feel like boss does. That was an essential lesson she was seeking to
learn. Which is why, when boss asks her what she wants from him, she replies, "I want you to be loving and gentle with
me." This is something he has not been and is the other part of the puzzle she is trying to solve. She needs to feel that
he loves her. Whether he does or not.
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Does anyone really believe that Christian was doing all of this because he cared about what Vivian really wanted? The liar he is referring to above is himself when he charmed Vivian during their dinner date and during the ride home.
Wife comes to believe it whether you the player do or not. As her comment as she leaves at the end of chapter 2 shows.

His assumption is that she truly wanted him and he needed to lie to her to help her accept that. This guy is not a good bet for a long term lover, but wife is going to make that bet anyway, based on what her heart tells her.

I think your assessment is unsympathetic. Wife deserves better than that. She is having trouble coming to terms with herself, husband and boss. We should wish her well in that journey. She still has a lot to learn. And dark times are probably ahead.
 
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I don't think this is unusual. Many women will ask questions like, "Does this make my ass look big?" Or other
requests for approval from somerbody whose opinion matters to them. A smart man knows to answer, "no, dear, your ass is just right in that dress," exactly like boss does.


Yes she is. But I think your insight is on the shallow side. What she really needs it to know if the sex she has with boss is about him or her generic response to men in general.



Right, but this is no reflection on wife. She has a lot to learn.



So what. She has feelings.



A normal response to rejection, coupled with all the other things she is troubled about.



I took this as part of wife dealing with her guilt. It was almost like she was giving him permission. It is also
true that she would be devastated if he did. She is a troubled person right now.


Same deal, the is the guy telling his love interest that, no the dress does not make her ass look big, as is his duty.



The question was not while, but after the ordeal was over.

Actually she looks angry.

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She has already stormed into his house spouting anger at being sent there, this is more anger. But I think what she
says deserves attention. Why would anyone say those things if they felt degraded. She feels anger, but something else.
She feels relieved that that guy did not make her feel like boss does. That was an essential lesson she was seeking to
learn. Which is why, when boss asks her what she wants from him, she replies, "I want you to be loving and gentle with
me." This is something he has not been and is the other part of the puzzle she is trying to solve. She needs to feel that
he loves her. Whether he does or not.


Wife comes to believe it whether you the player do or not. As her comment as she leaves at the end of chapter 2 shows.

His assumption is that she truly wanted him and he needed to lie to her to help her accept that. This guy is not a good bet for a long term lover, but wife is going to make that bet anyway, based on what her heart tells her.

I think your assessment is unsympathetic. Wife deserves better than that. She is having trouble coming to terms with herself, husband and boss. We should wish her well in that journey. She still has a lot to learn. And dark times are probably ahead.
Your responses don't address any of the issues I brought up. There is a big difference between a woman asking you if her butt looks big in a particular outfit and her allowing herself to be manipulated because she is insecure about her attractiveness. Men, Christian in particular but it is clear others will follow, can use Vivian's insecurity about her looks to manipulate her into having sex them. And no, my analysis of why Vivian is at the bar is not shallow, yours is. What Vivian says is her motivation is not really her primary motivation. She is insecure about her looks because she is getting older. This is evidenced by both her words and actions. She is afraid Hutch might be attracted to Addison because Addison is younger and more attractive. Saying, "So what, she has feelings" does not address the issue I am raising. The issue is she is insecure about her attractiveness because she is getting older. If the main reason why she was in the bar was to see if someone else did it for her like Christian, then it would not have been as upset as she was that the guy did not want her. She thought he was attractive, which is why she smiled at him, but he did not think she was attractive, which made her sad. Christian was able to manipulate her in the car by telling her how she was more attractive than a 20 year old and playing on her insecurities about being 45. He used her insecurity to get his hooks deeper into her. That is different than saying, "You butt doesn't look fat in that dress." You equate normal reassurances, like saying, "That dress does not make you look fat" with manipulating a person's insecurities to dig their hooks into them. Where Vivian is being assaulted, she has tears in her eyes because she is crying. You can be crying when you are angry. If a woman is being assaulted it makes since that she would feel angry, and that she would be crying, but being assaulted would not make her feel powerful. Vivian does not look like she feels powerful in any of the scenes where she is being humiliated and abused. You wrote responses to my comments, but you did not address any of the points I brought up.

As far as being unsympathetic, it is unsympathetic to call the abuse and manipulation of a woman empowering. Vivian was not being empowered, she was being degraded and humiliated. I don't give her a pass for her lies, betrayals, or hypocrisy, but I oppose and call out her being abused, humiliated, and degraded by Christian.
 
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She is very insecure about her attractiveness, especially since she is 45
All very true. The problem is that a lot of this goes under the viewer's radar because he sees a 40something with the body of a 20something. Of course we like to see that and, yes, we are happy for her (although, in contrast to others I don't feel under any obligation to be more sympathetic to Vivian than to any other character), but this of course takes away the context and the reality behind her motives and her inner state you rightly point out. This is a difficult structural problem of the VN: the dev is bold and innovative by having this age structure as an integral element to his story, on the other hand it's still a porn game and he wants to deliver eye candy. Consequence is, the viewer doesn't intuitively feel and see the reason for her insecurity and therefore for her behaviour. I asked months ago if some aspects of the storyline were even plausible and possible, if the visuals were differeent.
 

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As far as being unsympathetic, it is unsympathetic to call the abuse and manipulation of a woman empowering
Very important point. That line of defense is in reality harming women, not supporting and helping them. It ignores their reality for the sake of a naive ideal which at the end is anotherone of male fantasies, just a more dishonest one.
 
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As far as being unsympathetic, it is unsympathetic to call the abuse and manipulation of a woman empowering.
Nobody said that. Wife said she felt that way after, as she was shouting anger.

Vivian was not being empowered, she was being degraded and humiliated. I don't give her a pass for her lies, betrayals, or hypocrisy, but I oppose and call out her being abused, humiliated, and degraded by Christian.
Yet, the degradation you place goes to her, the blame you place goes to her, while you say you opponse boss's behavior. This is probably the first time I have heard a word against boss in the many diatribes against wife that I have read here.

You guys are really vicious.
 
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