Exactly, most of ''r***'' porn,specially anime,are very light compared to IRL stuff,so they can focus more on the mindbreak aspect of it.I couldn't enjoy most scenes from Rance or evenicle,because of how real it felt sometimes(THAT ONE SCENE IN EVENICLE THOU),props to the VA and staff that worked on that series,some stuff left me scarred for a fews days.
I understand what you are trying to say, I dont particularly like NTR, as there's stuff that even I find to be a bit too much, whoever i do take pleasure in the debauchery aspect of it. I don't even relate to the MC in these kinds of works simply because I cant understand the notion of knowing your partner is being taken advantage of and the MC is simply standing still, but like i said, i do revel in the debauchery. I guess this is better catalogued as "voyeurism" rather than anything else.
Second this, not as interactive as ntrlegend since it's made in rpgm, but the game is massive with lots of endings and caters to many kinks
I think so too
Agreed. But in the same sense, I feel like NTR porn is generally much "lighter" than real life too. In these kind of games, the victim is either none the wiser or witnesses the the full magnitude of the situation. In real life, there's a lot of manipulation, paranoia, doubt, etc (which is actually one of the strong points of Hero Party Must Fall) and typically the person being cheated on doesn't actually get much closure. Like if they really wanted to go for psychological damage, they could have the victim act like an actual caring human being capable of holding a relationship, and doing everything they can do save it when their SO starts acting distant. Or worse, make it so that the "bad guy" is actually a decent human being and the SO is actually happier with them. Like the actual thing people want in NTR isn't to be miserable, it's the over the top debauchery of the situation.
I consider myself to be in the voyeur category too. For me, playing these kind of games is like turning a page in the book. No matter what I do, the story will have a predetermined set of events happen. The story isn't going to change just because I refuse to turn the page. Even if you wanted to save one or more of the characters, you can't even attempt to without the story's permission. As for nonconsensual fetishes, I treat it like a spice. I like think it fits in some things, but not in others. Some people can eat whole ass peppers by themselves, but I'm not one of those people. People can like what they like, as long as they're not forcing it down other people's throats.
my main issue with a lot of ntr is that the male character may willingly choose to "share" his wife but will wallow in galactic levels of self-pity and anxiety. i understand that this may perhaps be a big draw for some, but I find it very annoying --maybe even disturbing-- because that anxious energy will just seep into me and put me in an extremely unpleasant mood. I tried lendable wife or whatever it's called and felt like this. to be fair though, i am just a very anxious person in general.
Both of those things are fine as long as you continue to acknowledge it's fiction. Like you're not a bad dude just because you like certain kinds of porn, and other people aren't bad dudes for liking porn that's too extreme for you. Like in my mind, I can enjoy these kinds of games because there's no way in hell real life works like this at all. Like I can enjoy a Marvel movie because none of that loss of life and collateral damage is real. I can enjoy horror films because none of the victims or monsters are real. You're experiencing some dude's imagination. In this game's case, some guy out there is pretending to be multiple characters at once, even the wife, to entertain you. This is all harmless entertainment as long as you don't take anything to real life.
