Lotta copium there. Cucks enjoy being cucked too, that's why the humiliation or jealousy aspect don't have to be present for it to be cuck stuff it's just for w/e reason more acceptable to call it ntr than cuck stuff.
There's no copium here at all. I'm merely pointing out the issue about the implication that being a cuckold means liking humiliation. You don't think there's anything wrong with that? In fact the humiliation part in the word cuckold is so ingrained in most people's minds that if you take that humiliation part away you might as well remove the word cuckold altogether. So yeah, It just becomes I like watching my partner get fucked by another 'not necessarily a man.' because I enjoy seeing her in a different light and it's a twisted show of affection because she agreed willingly for me.(Netorase).
what you want to see is the mc being cucked, that's called being a cuck.
See that's where you get it wrong. You declared what 'I want to see' as a matter of fact and basically said I wanted to be humiliated because the word 'cuck' has that implication. And Even as you said if we take the humiliation part away from the word 'cuck',
When another fucks your girl you are cucked, because that's what the basic meaning of it is if you take the humiliation part away, That's just the objective part of it, someone else is fucking your girl regardless of what you feel about it. But when you argue 'I want to see' this. Then it's argument to what my subjective experience of what's happening is. You argue about what I enjoy about it.
Then it becomes, If I don't self insert - 'I like watching this mc getting cucked.' which has the implication that you want to see mc suffer. Which is basically netori because that's not you and find delight in it.
If you self insert - 'I like watching myself get cucked.' It don't even make sense, what's there to enjoy about that? Like, Am I supposed to watch myself getting turned on by this? Fap to my facial expressions? or fap looking at me crying about it? But I don't see myself crying about it so I can't self insert myself to that kind of MC.
No, what I like to 'see', 'watch', 'enjoy', is my 'partner'. This is why I don't like most Netorare MC, they're all pathetic crying and shit. And even in Netorase MCs. Devs will make the fmc get addicted to the other guy's cock and be with him in the end like what? Sure that's the more likely thing to happen in real life but man this is porn, can't you make a story where the fmc still remain loyal? I mean, you already made female characters not die to orc cock why not make this?
Edit: In summary, Getting cucked is just a matter of fact. Like killing is just a matter of fact. They're neither positive nor negative. When you say I want to get cucked or I want to kill. What do you mean exactly? No one likes to just get cucked or to just kill. It's a blank statement. You've got to ask the subjective experience because it's quite literally objectively tied to it. Otherwise it's too open for interpretation.
Killing is what's physically happening but what I enjoy is killing who? , I don't just enjoy killing. Murderers, soldiers are murderers, psychopaths are murderers. Yet they're not the same. They're the same if you remove the subjective but reality is a mix of objective and subjective. You don't get one without the other.