- Jul 30, 2018
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I do understand the mentality don't get me wrong and I would 100% be open to a game like that but I think that's the root of it f it was a different game because would it be cool if we got a more options and could see a more intimate side to a character, Yeah it would be cool but with what GBP is doing here specifically with Our Life I think its very unlikely that itll happen since it seems like they wanna go for a more comfy/wholesome/sfw type of romance I think a good way to describe it is like a TV show marketed towards a Teenage Demographic but not really for anybody in general.I get that, I don't want to take away from people's comfort zone, if you're trying to escape from sex, angst, and reality, that's fine, nothing is wrong with that, that's the definition of Fluff, and I think this game was made with the intention of Fluff.
Where I think we differ, though, is how you view sexual situations, I don't think learning/discussing sex is perverted, I think it's as natural as talking about any other topic. I'm not looking for Teens- to go around getting busy or sexually molesting people, I'm not looking for them to start discussing which sort of birth control they prefer or who they'd rather try oral with, or something. I don't need the topic to be focused on actually arousing the viewers or the characters getting laid (of course, I'd love that, though!).
My argument is very much the same argument when the writing community complains about never seeing people go to the bathroom (I don't know if you've come across these complaints). This isn't about a toilet fetish, this is about humanizing our characters, when I say I want to see characters take a bathroom break, it's not because I have a fetish, or want to play with a toilet, it's because I'm feeling disconnected to the story, and think it's taking an unrealistic turn.
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This whole situation is a very "everybody poops" scenario. Yes, I am a pervert, yes I love smut and will try everything to get it, but I don't think I'm being very unreasonable in wanting a wholesome romance story to understand that sex and reproduction can also be wholesome.
I mean, I don't think so? Sorry, I can be a little slow to other people's feelings. I don't mean to attack anybody, and I'm not upset from anything said here. I think this was a good, healthy argument, we got our opinions across, and I actually learned something about how others think. It also made me understand even more why OL didn't lean into the sex part of sexuality.
I'm pretty passionate, but I try to inject humor as much as I can, so my "no hard feelings" can translate over the internet. I also try to incorporate silly emojis, but sometimes I forget (my exclamation marks usually means I am laughing! ). Sorry, everyone, if anyone thought I was angry or offended! I'm cool with the situation.
Also Ill note I don't really see a problem with anything presented here like I ain't like offended or anything I actually completely understand your point of view and would like to see a game similar to what you guys have pitched I'm just trying to give an argument as to why it wont happen based off what I've witnessed while lurking in GBP Discord and just kinda the overall vibe I get with the people in there, From what I've seen more people definitely seem to be into the wholesome side than the horny stuff since I see more people obsessing with the cutesy, comfy, safe or wholeseome aspects of the game over the more saucy bits and than you have the 18+ zone which is just people being really horny for their Our Life OCs and just posting thirst art. (I don't understand it but hey whatever makes them happy I guess)
But yeah would love to see GBP handle a more mature Our Life styled game I just don't think it'll be Beginnings & Always or Now & Forever.
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