Saerwen
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Of course, those tits and ass shots isn't to show the progress of "working out".This applies to girls too btw.
The best kind of erotica for women though.True, we don't workout for attention.
Of course, those tits and ass shots isn't to show the progress of "working out".This applies to girls too btw.
The best kind of erotica for women though.True, we don't workout for attention.
Bro, chasing baddies lasts a summer. Chasing discipline lasts a lifetime. Yeah, you’re right; all those 5am lifters in the dead of winter are definitely just hoping a bikini model strolls past the squat rack.![]()
The male equivalent of the 'humble' woman who somehow lived all her life not knowing she's gorgeous.The best kind of erotica for women though.
Sorry bro, but I don't buy it. You want to exorcise your demons, you sign for a contact sport that is a way more fit outlet. That way, you manage to get a good sweat, get a healthy discharge of the extra aggressiveness, and you build camaraderie with your fellow teammates, and leave the gym as an option for when the schedule doesn't allow going outside when the sun is up to get some fresh airTrue, we don't workout for attention. For most of us gym bros, it's like a ritual we follow to discipline ourselves; how far can we push and how far till we break. Most of us have their own demons to fight and not worry about how the people of the opposite sex would perceive us, that's like the least of our concern.
The people you see on social media are just minorities and they don't represent our gym culture. Getting attention is the side effect of chasing fitness as I see it.
Tbh, it's mostly the dudes who'll compliment you, not the girls.
Girls are attracted to Ian because he's good looking in general. His hobbies aren't extravagant but he's a nice guy and good in bed. Ian is a dream guy in one.The conversation about the purpose of going to the gym in general drifted away from the original argument, that Stan isn't becoming a man just because he hits the gym - which he doesn't do it on his own resolution to build discipline and confidence, but because the girl he wants to fuck suggested it to him, so he just does it to impress her.
He may get a six-pack, but he remains socially inept, dependent on girls, unconfident, incel-like, ugly (face, haircut, clothes) and uncharismatic. He expects hitting the gym magically becoming a better person, when its just one of a dozen steps to change your lifestyle. Once he gets rejected again, he will be immediately pissed about it that he didn't got it despite him trying.
Ian can go to the gym and while the girls compliment him, he can also not go to the gym and they can fall in love for him anyway. Because hitting the gym can only do so much to build character and attractiveness required for a long term relationship. The girls aren't attracted to Ian because he hits the gym and can beat up other rivals, its because he is well-adjusted, socially, witty, and coming out of his depression becoming more and more confident in all aspects in his life - friends, career, hobby.
I mean, it's still kind of relevant because the original premise presented here is that doing gym to impress others "doesn't make Stan a man" when in reality this is very much regular male behavior. In this sense it doesn't mean "Stan doesn't become a man" if he does it -- he'd be in fact doing a normal male thing. As opposed to staying holed up in his room the entire time (and likely bitching on web forums how no woman appreciates him)The conversation about the purpose of going to the gym in general drifted away from the original argument, that Stan isn't becoming a man just because he hits the gym - which he doesn't do it on his own resolution to build discipline and confidence, but because the girl he wants to fuck suggested it to him, so he just does it to impress her.
Sure. It additionally has to do that he is creative and leaves a foot print in the world, so to speak. There is a reason to interact with him, because he has his own ideas and identity. Stan is just consuming stuff other people created. He doesn't have anything original to say or contribute that other people couldn't do as well.Girls are attracted to Ian because he's good looking in general. His hobbies aren't extravagant but he's a nice guy and good in bed. Ian is a dream guy in one.
Pfft you're just saying this because you haven't read his treatise on the qualities of Tali's sweat he had produced on BioWare forum.Stan is just consuming stuff other people created. He doesn't have anything original to say or contribute that other people couldn't do as well.
That's all true. Stan needs a change of type to appeal to women. That applies to his body as well as his personality. I wasn't exactly beautiful at his age either. And I am sure I am not the big exception. This changes later, also through the decision to make something of my type. And today I'm 46, married, in a relationship for 27 years, married for 12 of those years, two children, a good job, everything is fine. So, it's all possible, even for a guy like Stan.The conversation about the purpose of going to the gym in general drifted away from the original argument, that Stan isn't becoming a man just because he hits the gym - which he doesn't do it on his own resolution to build discipline and confidence, but because the girl he wants to fuck suggested it to him, so he just does it to impress her.
He may get a six-pack, but he remains socially inept, dependent on girls, unconfident, incel-like, ugly (face, haircut, clothes) and uncharismatic. He expects hitting the gym magically becoming a better person, when its just one of a dozen steps to change your lifestyle. Once he gets rejected again, he will be immediately pissed about it that he didn't got it despite him trying.
Ian can go to the gym and while the girls compliment him, he can also not go to the gym and they can fall in love for him anyway. Because hitting the gym can only do so much to build character and attractiveness required for a long term relationship. The girls aren't attracted to Ian because he hits the gym and can beat up other rivals, its because he is well-adjusted, socially, witty, and coming out of his depression becoming more and more confident in all aspects in his life - friends, career, hobby.
Imagine he would make video games (and for the sake of the argument decent ones). That would make him far more interesting and he had a lot more to talk about.Pfft you're just saying this because you haven't read his treatise on the qualities of Tali's sweat he had produced on BioWare forum.![]()
To be honest, i'm not sure if that'd really help, because --i'm trying to be objective here-- i feel that most of the stuff game devs get involved in and may want to talk about are very opaque to people who lack any first-hand experience. It'd probably isolate him even more from anyone not familiar with those subjects.Imagine he would make video games (and for the sake of the argument decent ones). That would make him far more interesting and he had a lot more to talk about.
You mean like GGGB? That one with ORS "graphics" would be more popular.If ORS only had Lena as MC, I'm 100% sure it'd be less popular.
Yeah so Stan's a lost cause, at least in Lena's league. He has to fish into a lower league, even the bottom oneYeah, this nails it. This was the point before we got lost in “bro just lift for baddies” land.
Stan hitting the gym because a girl told him to is like grinding XP in the wrong skill tree; yeah, the number goes up, but you’re still useless in the boss fight.
Ian’s proof that charisma, confidence, and actually having a life outside of the weight rack pull way more aggro than just showing off a six-pack. The gym’s a solid buff, but it’s not the main quest.
Otherwise, you’re basically the same NPC… just with higher-resolution biceps.
It is still perfectly relevant, though. Whether he starts training for "himself" or to attract girls, he (or a real life equivalent of Stan) is still going to build resolution and confidence. That's the point of lifting. It's the only habit you pursue which has a clear cut effects on your body based on consistency and progression alone. That's why is so damn popular.The conversation about the purpose of going to the gym in general drifted away from the original argument, that Stan isn't becoming a man just because he hits the gym - which he doesn't do it on his own resolution to build discipline and confidence, but because the girl he wants to fuck suggested it to him, so he just does it to impress her.
There are uber drivers who get laid by clapping their fingers and they only leave a carbon footprint to the world.Sure. It additionally has to do that he is creative and leaves a foot print in the world, so to speak. There is a reason to interact with him, because he has his own ideas and identity. Stan is just consuming stuff other people created. He doesn't have anything original to say or contribute that other people couldn't do as well.
Sure, it would be popular to the niche audience into niche fetishes that GGGB heavily emphasizes.You mean like GGGB? That one with ORS "graphics" would be more popular.
Maybe he'll catch Minerva's eye on one of those gym trips. She'd probably appreciate another boy toy to step on.Yeah so Stan's a lost cause, at least in Lena's league. He has to fish into a lower league, even the bottom one
Say men if set the limit of relation with cindy,but u don't want to be commited to her she will still hangout with him?(obligate to do both condition?)Maybe he'll catch Minerva's eye on one of those gym trips. She'd probably appreciate another boy toy to step on.![]()
rosa is the only one in this level.Maybe he'll catch Minerva's eye on one of those gym trips. She'd probably appreciate another boy toy to step on.![]()