Played through the first update, not sure its for me. There is a scene you have to watch where Lucas (non MC male friend) has sex with ashley (one of the girls introduced) which I'm not really a fan of just watching other dudes. Something feels off with the roommate as well, feels like hes going to do something scuzzy. Also don't really like branches paths so early on in the story leading to missable scenes, I dont like having to replay a game a bunch of times trying other choices to see everything. There is also a random freeroam section, which is a pass for me.
On top of that, to get positive Kris points (your childhood friend) you have to have her explain and watch the scenes with her and her ex (ex eating her out) followed by a scene of her doing foreplay with another ex.
It feels like you want to go full swinging or full NTR. Just do it and label the game correctly instead of the back and forth wishy washy. As the game is now there is no chance non NTR fans are going to like it and it will be talked about at every single release.
Imo you can either redo the first chapter to remove all of that content with other dudes to appease that group, or you can just go in with the swinging / ntr stuff and appease that group. As it is your just going to upset both fanbases.